I have
written more about men's fantasies than I would care to read in one
sitting, but I haven't written one thing about women's fantasies. And
I don't care what you say, you know you have them.
As
important as it is to know and understand your partner's fantasies,
it's equally as important to have some of your own. If you enjoy
chastity, tease and denial, or even CBT, you must have had at least
one fantasy involving one or more of these things. Wouldn't it be
great to try it out? Well, that depends on what it is. I mean, are
you really going to march your subbie down Main Street wearing
nothing but a collar, leash and a chastity device?
So,
obviously you have to use a little common sense in determining what
you can and can't do. Let's say you have selected a nice little dream
about whipping your boy in a semi-public place... Say, a play party.
I know, you don't attend any play parties. Why not? You should. You
could learn a great deal from others who have been at it longer, or
who's imaginations have been running wild for the last year or so.
Okay, back
on subject. So how do you use this little fantasy of yours? How do
you incorporate it into your “normal” playtime? The same way you
would incorporate his fantasies. Start out by placing a blindfold
over his eyes (it helps him visualize). Now, as you play with him
(any way you like), talk about your fantasy. Tell him how you would
really love to do it with (to?) him.
Vocalizing
your fantasy should be enough to turn you on as much as it will him.
Then, of course, you can have him pleasure you! The point is not to
verbalize the fantasy completely. I mean, that can be a little
intimidating. But, while he is tending to you, have him verbalize
your fantasy for you. After all, didn't you just tell him what it was
all about? Let him make up the details for you. That way, you can
just relax and listen while he does whatever it is you want him to.
Once he
knows a few of your fantasies, you can have him make up stories about
them whenever you're in the mood. Why not use him for more than doing
the chores?
Mistress
Ivey
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