Friday, December 24, 2010

More Daily Teasing

I have written about daily teasing before, but I think it is a subject that needs a great deal of emphasis. I cannot stress enough how important it is to keep your man thinking about sex and (especially) YOU! After all, the whole point of teasing is to keep your guy horny and attentive. Attentive to both your sexual needs and desires and to the everyday chores you want him to perform around the house. Maybe I am going into too much detail, here, but I think it's really needed. While some things may seem obvious to some, others will be glad I was detailed.

The best way to accomplish this is to make and KEEP him as sexually aroused as possible as much of the time as possible. So let's talk about things you can do to keep him that way. The following are some examples of things you can do to insure that he will be thinking about you and about that next ejaculation if and when you decide to give it to him. Some things might not apply if your guy is in chastity.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

New Toy!

I found a new product on the market that is great for tormenting a man's cock while you are teasing him. Well, it's called an “Expandable Ponytailer” by sc√ľnci. I am sure you can find them anywhere women's hair products are sold. I bought mine at the local “Dollar General” store. They come in two sizes (large and small). I got one large one and two small ones for a total of $5. The large one measures about 1-3/4 inch across at the base and was sold as a single unit. The smaller one measures about one inch across the base and was sold as a pair (for smaller ponytails I assume).

When you open them up (by spreading them out) the first thing you notice is those wonderful teeth inside! They are built as a lattice work that expands and contracts as you pull and push on them. I suppose they would be nice to hold a ponytail in place, but, as I said, I had another purpose in mind for them.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

The Male G-Spot

Aneros going in...
Is there really a Male G-Spot? The answer is "Absolutely." Quite simply, the Male G-Spot is the man's prostate gland, and more specifically, the prostate-perineum. The prostate is the male prostate gland, and the perineum is a dime-sized soft spot between the anus and scrotum. The important nerves that control the sexual organs, including those controlling erection, orgasm, and ejaculation, converge at the prostate and the perineum area. This means that this area is essentially a man's "command center" for sexual pleasure. The result of stimulating the Male G-Spot can be sexual pleasure on an entirely different level for men.

So if I stimulate this spot I can give my man an orgasm he will never forget? Yes, and no. There is a device designed for just that purpose. It's called the Aneros. They actually make several different models, but the basic function remains the same. I have not personally used one, but I am told they work very well. If used correctly, you can give you man an orgasm he will never forget or milk him dry without an orgasm.

I prefer to use the prostate and prostate-perineum for just that reason – Milking a man's cum without letting him feel the relief a regular orgasm would give him. That's right, I said “Milking a man's cum.” If you push your finger well lubricated (or the Aneros) into your man's anus, you can massage the dime-sized soft spot (prostate-perineum) until your man's cum oozes out of his cock. No, it doesn't squirt, shoot, or spew out, it just oozes. If you do this, you can keep his cock erect for hours without the use of any of those drugs designed to allow longer erections.

So what does all this have to do with me? By milking my slave's cum I can deny him an orgasm and still keep him erect and wanting more. In fact, he doesn't even have to be aroused in order for me to milk him. That's right. Milking does not require arousal. If you are into orgasm denial, milking your man when he isn't even aroused can be a big control mechanism. It's a great humiliation for those who enjoy that as well.

Once you have milked him dry you can humiliate him by making him drink his cum or measure it and make sure he has not been masturbating in secret. Make a frozen “cumsicle” for him to enjoy later, or whatever. I'll leave the ideas of what to do will all that cum, once you extract it from him, up to you. I would love to hear what you do with it.

For more information on milking I suggest reading Lady Lubyanka's blog on milking.

Mistress Ivey

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Tease Talk

I have been getting quite a few requests for more information on talking. So in this post I am going to show you what a short session could be like. Yes, it is quite repetitive, but that's okay. You don't have to recite any long orations about any one thing. No, what you need to do, once you get your man properly bound, is tease his mind as much as you tease his cock. Before you start, you should bind your guy in some way so that he cannot reach his cock or struggle (twisting, turning, etc.) enough that he can escape your touch. After all, we don't want him stopping our fun, now do we? You can bind him to a bed, a chair, a wall, or even just hag-tie him as long as you are comfortable and can get to his genitals.

In this scene I will use some humiliation. I will talk about some of the fantasies that my fictitious victim has. You will need to substitute your guys fantasies (whatever they are) for the ones used here. Note: All questions to the victim (sub, guy, man, slave or what have you) are rhetorical (as yours should be). That is, you really don't care what his answers are, or even if he answers at all. The point is to make him think about what you are doing and what you might do. The words in brackets “[ ]” indicate my actions.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Chastity Roulette

As games go, there are an unlimited number of choices. However, I think Roulette is, by far, the best of them all. It has nine different odds depending on the bet placed, and '0' and '00' add something special for the Mistress. There are so many ways to play, only a few of which I will show you here.

  • Roulette Wheel
  • Betting table (usually cloth)
  • Odds chart (see photo)

Bets and Odds: (see Odds chart)
The odds vary according to the bet placed. You can download the photos on this page for a full sized version. (Just click the photo and download it however your browser requires. Same with the table photo.)

How to Play:
The sub (or chaste one, if you will) is allowed to place one bet only. What he (or she as the case may be) wins is determined by the payout odds. The better the odds of winning, the less he/she will get.

  • 35:1 – Full orgasm (any way)
  • 17:1 – Ruined orgasm (Mistress' choice how)
  • 11:1 – 1 Hour of teasing (can include edging)
  • 8:1 – 45 minutes of teasing (no edging)
  • 6:1 – 30 minutes of teasing (no edging)
  • 5:1 – Edged 3 times (however long it takes)
  • 2:1 – Masturbate for 10 minutes (no orgasm)
  • 1:1 – 1 minute of masturbation
If he/she loses their bet, nothing happens that day. Or perhaps they are punished in some way.

Of course, you can use whatever incentives you like. You don't have to use the examples given here. You may want to use a disincentive such as a humiliation or a punishment to make the better odds not such a good thing. Masturbation can often be a disincentive as well.

So what happens if the ball lands on '0' or '00' and he/she did not bet on them? That's up to you. As Mistress, you can make it anything you want, perhaps a punishment or a very humiliating act of some sort. Here are a couple of simple variations that require only the wheel itself. No betting table or odds chart is needed.