I recently read another blog about
“forced” chastity. About the only thing with which I agree
concerning that post is that you can't really force chastity on
anyone. Let's look at the facts...
- No man who doesn't want to be locked in chastity is not going to allow someone to lock a device on him.
- No device (yet) made can't be defeated, no matter what kind you have.
- If a chastity device were placed on a man against his will, he could easily bring criminal charges against the perpetrator.
With that in mind, I would like to
discuss what many men DO like. Many men, especially those involved in
chastity, have fantasies about being “forced” to do any number of
things. Some want to be forced to wash the dishes, some want to be
forced to wear a woman's clothing, and some even want to be forced to
watch their wife have sex with another man. The truth be told, these
are all just fantasies. I'm not saying that they won't experience any
of these things, but the truth is they want to pretend that they are
being “forced.”
There is a certain amount of sexual
excitement in being forced to do things that are considered to be
outside the range of “normal.” Normal, meaning accepted by
society as a whole, or not thought of as “kinky” by non-kinky
folks. All the person is looking for is an added thrill that would
not be there if they were not “forced” to perform some activity.
When I was slave to my husband, there
was a thrill in not having to make any decisions at all. Our sexual,
or kinky, activities took on a more exciting, more intense, feeling
simply because nothing I was doing was my idea. I had no choice. I
had to do what I was told. Being bound only adds to the thrill
because, no matter what happens to me, I was not the one who was
doing it. I was being “forced” to do it.
All most men want is for someone else
tell them what to do. They want to be relieved of responsibility
for their actions. Their sexual actions, anyway. Men's fantasies
are as widely varied as snowflakes. There are no two alike.
Not only do these
fantasies vary from man to man, they often vary from day to day in
the same man. That is, one man's fantasies are constantly changing,
evolving, from moment to moment.
The thought of being “forced” to do
anything in these fantasies only adds to the excitement of the
particular fantasy. Therefore, the desire to be “forced” to
perform certain acts becomes stronger with each passing day unless,
and until, the fantasy is realized. This is true of any fantasy.
If you are not completely up to date on
exactly what your man is fantasizing about, you need to learn about
them. After all, the best way to control any man is through his
fantasies!
Mistress Ivey
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