Friday, October 5, 2018

First Punishment


Sorry for the late post. There has been a lot going on here, lately.

I remember distinctly my first punishment from Mistress Ivey. I admit, I earned it. In fact, I did it deliberately, as I suppose many of you have, just to see what she would do. So what did I do? Let's just say I didn't do what I was supposed to do.

Wednesday, September 26, 2018

FIrst T&D


Believe it or not, neither of us (Ivey or myself) had ever done anything even resembling tease and denial. Every session we had up to this point had ended in at least one of us having an orgasm. And, no, it was not always me.

We had just finished signing our new FLR contract (agreement) when Ivey told me to go to the bedroom, strip naked and wait for her on the bed. Being a man, and always horny, I had no problem doing as she had ordered.

It didn't ever matter to me how tired I was, when the offer was made, I would be sure and muster whatever energy was necessary to hand the situation. (I am talking about sex, of course.) I did as I was told. After all, I did want to make things easy for her and I wanted to show her what a good little sex-slave I could be.

Wednesday, September 19, 2018

Setting Up an FLR

I remember the day, well it was actually an evening after the kids went to bed, that Ivey came to me said she wanted to talk about changing our relationship. I was confused. What was there to change? We had a contract. I was in charge. I saw no need to change anything. But... I was not going to shut her down without hearing what she had to say.

Ivey began by showing me some of the websites that other Mistresses were running at the time. She complained that was NOT the way it should be. I agreed, but I still didn't understand what that had to do with our relationship. She carefully explained that she wanted to reverse the roles in our relationship. That kind of shocked me even though I had already taught her how to be a good Dominant in a BDSM relationship.

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

The First Time


For the next few months, I am going to post a series of articles entitled “How It Feels.” This series is going to look at Female Led Relationships and Male Chastity from a man's point of view when his significant other is the one who wants to change things. Basically, it will be a look at how he feels, and what thoughts might go through his head when his partner decides to “give it a go.” Basically, it will be a look back on how things went for me. What I felt, and what other guys sometimes feel when things change. When the relationship evolves from the “normal” to a Female Led Relationship. And, of course, chastity.

Mistress Ivey always covered life from the woman's perspective. I plan to show this kind of relationship from a guy's point of view. The only difference is that “he” will not have to figure out how to approach “her” to get things started. I realize that that is one of the hardest things a guy has to do when he wants an FLR, but his wife has never considered it. I will cover that aspect later. There is an old post on my blog that is a letter from a guy to his woman telling her the benefits of an FLR. Actually, there is a link to it at the top of the page. It's called “To My Wife” and it pretty much covers that side of things.

My goal, with this series, is to show women (and men) how it feels from the male side of things. I think, once a woman knows how men feel about most things, she will realize that there is no reason for her to fear this kind of relationship, nor will she worry about the things Ivey proposed she do having a negative effect. They won't! Men, whether they know it or not, WANT this kind of relationship. I can say that with certainty because, I admit, I never thought I would enjoy being someone's “slave” or whatever you want to call it. But I found it much more exciting and rewarding, than anything I had experienced before. And I had been married twice before!

Hold onto your hats, folks! The truth is out there, and I am going to bring it straight to you...

nemo

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

The Answer...

...To last weeks questions. I know it was rather strange of me to write all that stuff about not knowing what to do and all, but the truth is, there are many guys, and women as well, out there who just don't know where to turn when they have no one to control them, or to control.

The answer is really quite simple, and that's why it is so often overlooked. You have to put yourself out there! By that, I mean, you have to make yourself known. Let others know what you are looking for. There are literally thousands of men and women looking for the right partner. That one person who can be their soul mate, as it were. The one person who is not only willing to control them, or be controlled by them, but who is a perfect match. It might just be the person living right next door to you. But you will never know unless you have a way to meet them. That is, meet them and let them know what you need without sounding like a complete loser, a weirdo, or some kind of creep.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

It's Sad...

To see what happens to a cock that no longer has anyone to control it, to tease it, to keep it locked up in chastity until it is time for it be released. Well, at least, that's how I feel. Since I have had no one to control me or my poor cock for the last five months, it seems a shame. I mean, here I am, probably the best example of how to be a submissive, male locked in chastity, and totally controlled by a woman, and I have no one...

Raise your hand if you agree with that statement. I happen to be the embodiment of that statement. Alone, after seventeen wonderful years with a loving partner who knew what it meant to control a man and his organ. 

Wednesday, August 8, 2018

How to Get Teased Without a Mistress

Guys... One of the hardest questions to find an answer to on the Internet is, “How can I get my wife to tease and deny me?” Good luck! Well, I have at least one answer for you...

If you have approached your wife or girlfriend about using tease and denial to make your life more miserable (meaning fun) and she is just not interested, here is some advice on how to proceed and get yourself teased in the process.

First of all, you need to decide what kind of teasing you want. Do you want her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis? Would you rather she was a bit aloof and acted like she was totally uninterested in your sexual gratification? Or would you simply want her to deny you an orgasm once in awhile?

First of all, if you expect her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis, you may be out of luck. You will first have to show her how much fun it can be. But I warn you, it won't be easy. You will have to beg and plead and try to get her to read all those stories that turn you on so much. Or... You could simply keep reading them and STOP masturbating to them. Sort of a do-it-yourself tease and denial.