Monday, July 16, 2018

Making it Tighter!

Your chastity cage, I mean. I know how it is, many of us (me included) feel that we don't have “enough” when it comes to filling a woman during intercourse. You know what I mean. Either our equipment is lacking in the size department, or we don't “put out” enough semen. If you are like I used to be, fairly small with a load to match, then you understand where I am coming from.

Yes, I admit, I was always a little self-conscious when it came to letting a woman, or other men, for that matter, see my equipment. For years I tried all the tricks to making it larger. You know, stroking it, pulling it, stretching it, and definitely trying every product on the market that touted that it would make me bigger. Naturally, none of them worked... Until now!

Wednesday, July 11, 2018

Male Chastity Pt-9

What Can You Expect to Get Out of it?

Of course, the obvious answer to that question is: it depends on what you are willing to put into it. You might think that that is a joke... But it isn't! As the Keyholder, you have the toughest job, until you get used to it. Once you have a number of things that you enjoy doing to your chaste man, a good set of weekly teases and, maybe a game or two that he likes to play, you can run on autopilot. Now that you have everything you need at your fingertips, and you are comfortable enough to use them, your job becomes a lot easier.

Wednesday, July 4, 2018

Male Chastity Pt. 8

How Should a Keyholder Approach it?

This is one place where the Internet seems to get it wrong. They seem to think that you, as the Keyholder should make all the rules, and be as mean and evil as you can possibly be. Go ahead and try that approach. I'll wait...

I didn't think it would take long for you realize that that is the WRONG approach. I will admit, there are a few men out there who would relish that type of a Keyholder. If that is what he really wants, then by all means, give it to him.

I will admit, many times the “Dream” of a guy who wants to try chastity, is quite often of a Keyholder ( a woman) that is mean and cruel and won't give him and inch, much less an orgasm... EVER! But faced with reality, most men will back off from that kind of relationship. It just won't work for them. I agree. It won't work for most men. And I don't think most wives or girlfriends, for that matter, could be that mean and cruel.

Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Male Chastity Pt-7

How Does All This Benefit Me?

I know I have been talking about the benefits for the chastised male, but this is supposed to be a partnership. After all, isn't that what marriage is all about? Being partners?

There are many benefits to being a Keyholder in a male chastity relationship. First of all, your partner is the one with the lousy hand in all of this. Oh? You don't think so? Yes, it's true that you will do most of the work when it comes to teasing him and keeping him as horny (aroused) as possible for as much of his time as possible. And, yes, there is a great deal of planning that goes with all that teasing.

However, as long as you are doing your part, you will have the perfect husband. Your husband (or chaste partner), will do just about anything to get what he wants. “And what is that?” you may ask. A chance to ejaculate (have an orgasm), of course. The longer he goes without ejaculating, the more desperate he will become. A desperate man will do just about anything to get what he wants. And you literally hold the key to that.

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Male Chastity Pt-6

How to Tease Him

One of the most often asked questions. Ivey got it a lot and I have gotten it a few times. I will give you a few examples and you can use your imagination from there. The first thing is, you must understand exactly what teasing is all about.

The art of teasing a man sexually has been practiced since the dawn of man ( and women). Women have used it to get more meat from her cave man, the chance to kill an enemy, and yes, even the opportunity to get a new car. Anytime a woman uses her sex appeal in order to influence a man in any way, she is, technically, teasing him. She offers certain sexual favors if he will only do such and such for her. Don't tell me you haven't ever done that. I know better.