Monday, July 18, 2016

Venus For Men

I have recently become aware of a product that I feel is definitely worth mentioning. I am sure many, if not all of you, have heard of the “Sybian” by Abco Research Associates. I have been aware of the “Sybian” for years but was not aware they also produce a product just as good for men!

The “Venus For Men” is a male masturbation aid that far out performs any other male masturbation aid I have ever come across. It is unique in what it does and how it does what it does. So what does it do? It can give your man the feeling of actual sex with a woman (or even better, as some of it's user's claim). It can be used to to help those with erection difficulties and can even create an ejaculation without an erection (or so they claim).

I have not, to date, used one of these devices on my hubby, or anyone else for that matter, but I would love to try it out. According to some users, a man can experience prolonged sexual pleasure because of the simple adjustments that can be made to both stroke and speed of the unit. I have read that simply by using a slow stroke, a man can last for hours. Imagine what you could do in the way of edging! If you were to control the unit, instead of allowing him to do it, you could go out shopping, and when you return, he would still not have ejaculated.

Think if it ladies, you could edge him or tease him for hours without ever getting your hands messy! Wouldn't that be a fun and unique experience!? Your guy would no longer beg you to tease him, but rather, he would beg you to use the Venus For Men on him. If you are of a mind to, you could give him more than one orgasm in a day. How many? That would be up to you to find out. But what fun you would both have learning just what this machine can do for you both!

There is even a pump system available to “enlarge” him for awhile. And an attachment to massage or suck his (or your) nipples. It even works on just the head of his penis if you like. It looks to be a very interesting device and I can't wait to try it out.

Check it out for yourself at and see what I am talking about.

Mistress Ivey

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

A Reblog from Tumblr

“ Again this is one of those facts that amazes me. I never thought I’d do this, let alone enjoy it. But I do it all the time now!
Most regularly it’ll be after I’ve been edging him, and I’ll say ‘that’s enough now’ and just let go, and...
Again this is one of those facts that amazes me. I never thought I’d do this, let alone enjoy it. But I do it all the time now!
Most regularly it’ll be after I’ve been edging him, and I’ll say ‘that’s enough now’ and just let go, and he’ll let out the hottest little whimper of need. And I’ll either say ‘cage back on’ or ‘you can stay out tonight’, either way, he almost always HAS to push himself up against me, he can’t physically stop himself. Either his still hard cock or his even harder cage, pushing into my bottom, desperate, wanting me so much.
Isn’t this the irony… the snuggles I want after sex I get most easily, when I DON’T let him cum! He wraps himself around me, wanting me, needing me, it’s so wonderful! If I’m not that sleepy, especially if I’ve left him uncaged, I’ll whisper, ‘What would you like to do to me right now?’ and I lie there as he tells me how much he wants to make love to me with his mouth, or he’ll get more aggressive, he’ll push his cock into me and tell me he wants to fill me with his seed, gently fucking me, obsessed with me.
This is the greatest kink ever… lol
And if I’ve had enough just a ‘that’s enough now darling, if you want to be allowed out tomorrow’ and I’m left in peace, knowing he’s fantasising about me, and I love it!

Tuesday, May 17, 2016


No, I am not going to break out into song. You're welcome. However, I am going to talk about feelings. Everyone has them. But it amazes me how many people can't seem to express them. Especially when it counts the most... to their spouse. Admit it. You have feeling that you are either afraid to express, or afraid of what your spouse will think of you if you do express them.

Well, I am here to tell you that keeping things bottled up is NEVER a good thing. Have you ever wanted your husband to understand certain feelings that you have, maybe toward sex, but you just could not seem to express them in a way that would be non-threatening? Or maybe there was something that you wanted to do that you thought (or were taught) would be considered too “kinky” for him?

Well, I am here to tell you that your husband has some of those same feelings. In fact, he is so afraid to tell you because, well, it's just not “manly” to have those kinds of feelings. Men, you know what I am talking about. I have a quote from a woman I respect for her work in the area of female led relationships. Tell me, gentlemen, that this does not strike home.

These feelings you have had for years. you want to be dominated, controlled, and told what to do and when. you feel like you have to have this. you want to serve a strong, caring, loving, consistent, firm, dominant person. You will obey, serve, and please. Not out of fear, but because it's what you crave to do, you live for it. Living by set rules and expectations is not only what you desire and crave, it just seems right.

you think these feelings are strange, you are afraid to tell anyone. you keep it to yourself. you think you are the only one like this. you also think people will believe you weak or unintelligent. Let Me tell you, you are not alone. More men have these feelings and will admit it than you know. It is very natural. Also you are probably driven, educated, strong. you don't want to lead. you want to give yourself over to the Mistress in your life.”

If this is you, and you have no one in your life to tell this to, then you need to check out “Ivey's Keys” for yourself. You might just be surprised by what you find there. And Ladies, if your husband has indicated that he has these feelings and you just don't know how to handle it, You should join him. Or maybe you want to learn more about how to handle those feelings you know that he has. Again, join us at “Iveys' Keys” and learn what you need to know to live a happier, more fulfilling life with him.

Mistress Ivey

Saturday, May 7, 2016

The New Site

Things are getting better every day. We have added some new games and an Instant Chat service to the website.

This is turning out to be great place to learn more about being good Dominant house wife. It also teaches your submissive how to follow directions. Things are moving in the right direction. Married couples, single subs (both male and female), and all the Keyholders are really enjoying what we do here. 

We love chastity and chastity control, orgasm control, tease and denial. Our Keyholder (Mistresses) are there to help you and your submissive to get the most out of your relationship. He may be your "sweetheart" but sometimes he needs a spanking to remind him who is in charge (and because he probably likes it). So give a us a chance. Come and see what we are all about. It is well worth the price of admission. Besides, FetLife might be fine for some, but they don't have the games and the FUN that Mistress Ivey's place has!

Come and check us out! Everyone is friendly and we would love to have you join us. Just click the link below the banner. Or Click Here


Mistress Ivey