Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Tease & Denial Should Be FUN!

Obviously, tease and denial (T&D) is fun for the recipient. No matter how many times you do it, he (or she, for that matter) will always want more. But if it is not fun for the teaser, or if it becomes monotonous, the teaser (you) will eventually stop doing it. You may even resent doing it.

I have always said, “Imagination is the key to sexual pleasure.” If you don't have the imagination you need to keep things fresh for the both of you, you will begin to look at it as a chore instead of an enjoyable activity.

Monday, February 5, 2018

Sexual Control

It's all about sexual control. Control a man's sexual outlets and you control the man. If you control when, where, and how he gets to ejaculate, he will be putty in your hands. Punish him when he displeases you, and he will worship at your feet.

Now, of course, the word “punish” can be interpreted in many ways. Whether you choose to use corporal punishment, or withholding sexual pleasure, makes little (or no) difference. The important thing is that you maintain control.

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Final Step

Sex should be fun! And now it is YOUR turn.

Your partner should be anxious to repeat the previous session. After all, it was all about HIS pleasure. And he DID enjoy it! If he has not, yet, agreed to allow you total control over your sex-lives, then hold out. Simply tell him that until he agrees to your request to be in charge, he is going to get nothing. As a reminder, ask him if he enjoyed what you did to him the last time. Does he want to experience that kind of thing again? If so, he needs to agree to put you in charge.

I doubt he will fight you on this, but if he does, hold out for awhile. If more than a couple of weeks goes by without any sexual encounters, you can simply repeat the last one with one minor change... Bind his hands. This is important. You can bind them to the headboard, to each other, or run a rope under that mattress and bind one hand to each end. Now, when you repeat the last session with his arms immobilized, he will not be able to finish himself off. Thus, he, and his ejaculation, are at your mercy.

Wednesday, December 20, 2017

Step Three

If you have done the first two steps exactly as I have explained them, then you should be ready for Step Three. I want you to gather together the following items:
  • Something you can use as a blindfold. A bandanna, a scarf, or even a sleep-mask. Anything that you can secure over his eyes so he won't be able to see anything you are getting ready to do to him.
  • A couple of toothpicks
  • Some type of mentholated cream or ointment. IcyHot works well and so does any muscle-ache relief cream such as Bengay or even Tiger Balm.
  • A few wooden clothespins (3-4 will do).
  • Something that vibrates.
  • Some kind of lubrication (oil or cream)

Once you have all these items, put everything except the blindfold in a small bag. An old purse works just fine. We don't want him seeing the other items until you are done with him. Getting him to wear a blindfold for some sexual fun shouldn't be difficult.

Wednesday, December 13, 2017

Step Two

Okay, so your husband gave you a few well deserved massages. I hope there were at least one or two of those that you did not return the favor. You can make up any excuse you like, but I would stay away from the “I'm sick” excuse. Let's look at where you can go from here...

What I recommend is treating your husband to a long, relaxing tease session. You should start with a message, much like the ones he has been giving to you. Make it long and slow. However, unlike him, I want you to include his genitals. Remember, long and slow.

Once you have massaged his back (and buttocks), turn him over and apply some nice soothing oil (or body lotion) to his chest and legs. DO NOT touch his genitals until you have finished with the rest of his body!