Wednesday, May 16, 2018

Realistic Male Chastity

I have recently read a great deal about male chastity on other blogs. I wanted to see what was being touted as “The” way to do it. Mistress Ivey started this blog because she was tired of the way sexual “Mistresses” were portrayed on the Internet. She believed that there were many more women (perhaps couples) who would open up their fantasies and desires, if they were exposed to another way of doing things. It was she who brought the Female Lead Relationship out in to the open and made it acceptable to the average woman.

Now, I am looking at male chastity and finding very little honest and unbiased accounts of what it truly is and can be. Just because a man has the desire to serve a woman, and to allow her to take control of his life, including his orgasms, does NOT mean that he wants permanent chastity, or a wife who will treat him like dirt and never think about his pleasure. On the contrary.

Sunday, May 13, 2018

Coming Soon!

Coming Soon!

I am planning a series covering the fallacies you find on the Internet concerning Male Chastity that will set the record straight. The truth about what makes a couple successful, and what makes relationships fail. Don't miss it!


Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Nemo's Take-over

Hi, folks.

Thank you for all your comments and kind words on the last post. Yes, it's true. Mistress Ivey has died. However, she would not have wanted this blog to stop. She wanted to help people! That is how she spent her life. So... I can either take it over myself, or simply leave it until there are no more visitors.

Vote on the pole to the right, should I take it over or not?


P.S. It was 94% in favor of me (nemo) taking over! Wow!

Wednesday, February 28, 2018


If you don't know how to masturbate raise your hands... Both of them.
Somehow I knew there would be no hands up. But that's NOT what this post is about. This post is about using masturbation as a form of tease and denial (T&D).

For a man, only another person (a woman?) can please him sexually more than he can please himself. Not so with a woman. We are lucking in that. Usually, a woman can please herself more than anyone else. So I think it is safe to say, if there is not a woman involved in your sex-life, then you are doing something wrong!

Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Tease & Denial Should Be FUN!

Obviously, tease and denial (T&D) is fun for the recipient. No matter how many times you do it, he (or she, for that matter) will always want more. But if it is not fun for the teaser, or if it becomes monotonous, the teaser (you) will eventually stop doing it. You may even resent doing it.

I have always said, “Imagination is the key to sexual pleasure.” If you don't have the imagination you need to keep things fresh for the both of you, you will begin to look at it as a chore instead of an enjoyable activity.