Male Chastity Pt-11

Keeping it Fun!

As I said in my last post, male chastity should be FUN! Not just for you, but for your chaste male as well. While this may seem like a daunting task, it is really simple. The Internet is full of ideas for you. There are websites dedicated to chastity games. All you have to do, is play them.

Let's be honest here, if something you want to do, have to do, or hate to do, is suddenly turned into something fun, you will look forward to it. You will no longer dread having to do it. Right!? Well, keeping your chaste male, AND yourself, happy, you need to keep things fun.

Male Chastity Pt-10

The Perfect Male Chastity Relationship

Besides the fact that nothing is perfect, (well, except the Fibonacci curve, of course) every relationship will face it's own set of problems. But, for the purpose of this writing, we are going to assume every couple is capable of making their relationship perfect.

For any relationship to be deemed perfect, each half must compliment the other. So, as a reasonable couple engaged in a male chastity form of existence there must be two sides that work in harmony with each other. They compliment each other, so to speak. If your relationship is going to last, there must be a balance between the participants.

What we are talking about is the need for each of you, male in chastity, and female in charge, to be a willing participant in this relationship. As the female, and the one in charge, the most important thing you have to do is enjoy yourself. I know how that sounds. Of course you enjoy yourself, you're in charge!

Making it Tighter!

No, that's NOT me!

Your chastity cage, I mean. I know how it is, many of us (me included) feel that we don't have “enough” when it comes to filling a woman during intercourse. You know what I mean. Either our equipment is lacking in the size department, or we don't “put out” enough semen. If you are like I used to be, fairly small with a load to match, then you understand where I am coming from.

Yes, I admit, I was always a little self-conscious when it came to letting a woman, or other men, for that matter, see my equipment. For years I tried all the tricks to making it larger. You know, stroking it, pulling it, stretching it, and definitely trying every product on the market that touted that it would make me bigger. Naturally, none of them worked... Until now!

Male Chastity Pt-9

What Can You Expect to Get Out of it?

Of course, the obvious answer to that question is: it depends on what you are willing to put into it. You might think that that is a joke... But it isn't! As the Keyholder, you have the toughest job, until you get used to it. Once you have a number of things that you enjoy doing to your chaste man, a good set of weekly teases and, maybe a game or two that he likes to play, you can run on autopilot. Now that you have everything you need at your fingertips, and you are comfortable enough to use them, your job becomes a lot easier.

Male Chastity Pt. 8

How Should a Keyholder Approach it?

This is one place where the Internet seems to get it wrong. They seem to think that you, as the Keyholder should make all the rules, and be as mean and evil as you can possibly be. Go ahead and try that approach. I'll wait...

I didn't think it would take long for you realize that that is the WRONG approach. I will admit, there are a few men out there who would relish that type of a Keyholder. If that is what he really wants, then by all means, give it to him.

I will admit, many times the “Dream” of a guy who wants to try chastity, is quite often of a Keyholder ( a woman) that is mean and cruel and won't give him and inch, much less an orgasm... EVER! But faced with reality, most men will back off from that kind of relationship. It just won't work for them. I agree. It won't work for most men. And I don't think most wives or girlfriends, for that matter, could be that mean and cruel.