Penetration Without Ejaculation - Update

Back in April I wrote a blog post about having intercourse without allowing your partner to ejaculate. Well, I am posting this update by popular demand. Yes, it really does work!

Even though there is a link in the aforementioned post, I will give it to you again. The product I used to desensitize nemo's cock is called Boy-Butter Extreme Desensitizing Lubricant. You can also get it here. Though I am sure there are other products that will adequately numb a cock for penetration, this is the best one I have tried, and I have tried many.

In this particular session, I began by securing nemo to a dining room chair. You know the type, straight back and nice and sturdy. I bound his wrists to the uprights at the back of the seat and his ankles to the bottom of the front legs. This allowed him to scoot his bottom to the front edge of the seat giving me easy access to everything I wanted.

First, I sat on the floor between his legs and fondled his balls while asking him if he would like to have an orgasm. I teased him by saying that I intended to give him the chance to have one (if he could). Once I had his cock nice and hard, ready for anything, I began applying the Boy-Butter to his entire cock (head and all). I wore a rubber glove because I didn't want my hand to go numb in the process.

I stroked it slowly and gently for about five minutes making sure he was completely numb. Then I used a damp (not dripping) washcloth to clean all the Boy-Butter off. After all, I don't want it to numb me, I want to feel him inside me and not go numb in the process. Once I was sure his cock was free of all numbing agent, the fun began.

At first, I backed up to the chair, teasing him with my bottom. I guess you could say I was more or less performing a lap-dance for him. I taunted him asking him if he wanted to touch me ass. With my legs between his, I slowly lowered myself down onto his erect cock. (Yes, I was pretty wet by this time.) At first I just sat there taunting him about what he could (or couldn't feel). I found the position to be a bit awkward at first, but I found that placing my hands high up on his thighs I was able to get up a pretty good rhythm.

I continued that for a few minutes, but what I really wanted to do was to see his face as I took my pleasure from him. So I stood up and turned to face him. I straddled him and, after allowing him to suckle each of my breasts for a moment, I lowered myself down onto his lap inserting his cock fully into me. In this position he could reach my breasts with his mouth (when I allowed it) and I could set up a very nice rhythm that I knew would bring me to the brink of orgasm quickly.

I continued moving up and down on his hard shaft until my first orgasm washed over me (the first is always the best). I stopped for a moment allowing him to suck my breasts while I recovered from that first orgasm. I also pinched his nipples while I had the chance. It turns him on and I love doing it. When I felt rested, I continued fucking him. I had a total of eight orgasms this time, three more than the last time. And I was becoming exhausted.

When I climbed off of him, he asked when he was going to get to cum. I just laughed and told him that he had his chance and that maybe I would give him another opportunity to ejaculate next week. He was very disappointed, but understood that this was all about my pleasure, and not his.

I highly recommend that you try this. It really works for those times when you need to feel a real cock inside you, but still don't want to give your partner an orgasm. I don't know exactly how long the numbing lasts. Since it wears off gradually, nemo could not give me an accurate time either. But I can say that it lasts more than a few minutes, because it takes me awhile to cum that many times. I don't allow myself to have multiple orgasms. That would tire me out too fast.

Here is that link again for those of you who are interested. I am sure you can find this stuff at any online store or maybe even your local adult toy store, but this place uses three different suppliers and always gives you the lowest price.

http://www.mistressiveystoys.com/Boy-Butter-Extreme-Desensitizing-3-oz-Tub-TSA-Approved/sku-CNVBBL-BBX3?a=mi92111

Mistress Ivey