The First Time

For the next few months, I am going to post a series of articles entitled “How It Feels.” This series is going to look at Female Led Relationships and Male Chastity from a man's point of view when his significant other is the one who wants to change things. Basically, it will be a look at how he feels, and what thoughts might go through his head when his partner decides to “give it a go.” Basically, it will be a look back on how things went for me. What I felt, and what other guys sometimes feel when things change. When the relationship evolves from the “normal” to a Female Led Relationship. And, of course, chastity.

Mistress Ivey always covered life from the woman's perspective. I plan to show this kind of relationship from a guy's point of view. The only difference is that “he” will not have to figure out how to approach “her” to get things started. I realize that that is one of the hardest things a guy has to do when he wants an FLR, but his wife has never considered it. I will cover that aspect later. There is an old post on my blog that is a letter from a guy to his woman telling her the benefits of an FLR. Actually, there is a link to it at the top of the page. It's called “To My Wife” and it pretty much covers that side of things.

My goal, with this series, is to show women (and men) how it feels from the male side of things. I think, once a woman knows how men feel about most things, she will realize that there is no reason for her to fear this kind of relationship, nor will she worry about the things Ivey proposed she do having a negative effect. They won't! Men, whether they know it or not, WANT this kind of relationship. I can say that with certainty because, I admit, I never thought I would enjoy being someone's “slave” or whatever you want to call it. But I found it much more exciting and rewarding, than anything I had experienced before. And I had been married twice before!

Hold onto your hats, folks! The truth is out there, and I am going to bring it straight to you...

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The Answer...

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It's Sad...

To see what happens to a cock that no longer has anyone to control it, to tease it, to keep it locked up in chastity until it is time for it be released. Well, at least, that's how I feel. Since I have had no one to control me or my poor cock for the last five months, it seems a shame. I mean, here I am, probably the best example of how to be a submissive, male locked in chastity, and totally controlled by a woman, and I have no one...

Raise your hand if you agree with that statement. I happen to be the embodiment of that statement. Alone, after seventeen wonderful years with a loving partner who knew what it meant to control a man and his organ. 

How to Get Teased Without a Mistress

Guys... One of the hardest questions to find an answer to on the Internet is, “How can I get my wife to tease and deny me?” Good luck! Well, I have at least one answer for you...

If you have approached your wife or girlfriend about using tease and denial to make your life more miserable (meaning fun) and she is just not interested, here is some advice on how to proceed and get yourself teased in the process.

First of all, you need to decide what kind of teasing you want. Do you want her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis? Would you rather she was a bit aloof and acted like she was totally uninterested in your sexual gratification? Or would you simply want her to deny you an orgasm once in awhile?

First of all, if you expect her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis, you may be out of luck. You will first have to show her how much fun it can be. But I warn you, it won't be easy. You will have to beg and plead and try to get her to read all those stories that turn you on so much. Or... You could simply keep reading them and STOP masturbating to them. Sort of a do-it-yourself tease and denial.

Male Chastity Pt-12

Sample Games & Teases

Here are some sample teases to get you started. I can't do everything for you, but with just a little imagination, you should be able to keep your Chastity Boy on the edge most of the time.

Verbal Teases:

These may be done over the phone, through a text message, or even email. They could be whispered in his ear when you are out to dinner, or at a movie. The point is to get him turned on and thinking about you, and what he could be doing instead of whatever he is doing.

• I would love to lick your cock from your balls all the way to the tip very slowly.
• I am laying on the bed masturbating right now. Don't you wish you were here?
• I would love to suck your big, hard, cock right now. I can't wait until you get home...
• I would love to feel your hands squeezing my breasts as you fuck me from behind.
• Remember that story you read about the two woman and one guy?

Male Chastity Pt-11

Keeping it Fun!

As I said in my last post, male chastity should be FUN! Not just for you, but for your chaste male as well. While this may seem like a daunting task, it is really simple. The Internet is full of ideas for you. There are websites dedicated to chastity games. All you have to do, is play them.

Let's be honest here, if something you want to do, have to do, or hate to do, is suddenly turned into something fun, you will look forward to it. You will no longer dread having to do it. Right!? Well, keeping your chaste male, AND yourself, happy, you need to keep things fun.

Male Chastity Pt-10

The Perfect Male Chastity Relationship

Besides the fact that nothing is perfect, (well, except the Fibonacci curve, of course) every relationship will face it's own set of problems. But, for the purpose of this writing, we are going to assume every couple is capable of making their relationship perfect.

For any relationship to be deemed perfect, each half must compliment the other. So, as a reasonable couple engaged in a male chastity form of existence there must be two sides that work in harmony with each other. They compliment each other, so to speak. If your relationship is going to last, there must be a balance between the participants.

What we are talking about is the need for each of you, male in chastity, and female in charge, to be a willing participant in this relationship. As the female, and the one in charge, the most important thing you have to do is enjoy yourself. I know how that sounds. Of course you enjoy yourself, you're in charge!