Male Chastity Pt-10

The Perfect Male Chastity Relationship

Besides the fact that nothing is perfect, (well, except the Fibonacci curve, of course) every relationship will face it's own set of problems. But, for the purpose of this writing, we are going to assume every couple is capable of making their relationship perfect.

For any relationship to be deemed perfect, each half must compliment the other. So, as a reasonable couple engaged in a male chastity form of existence there must be two sides that work in harmony with each other. They compliment each other, so to speak. If your relationship is going to last, there must be a balance between the participants.

What we are talking about is the need for each of you, male in chastity, and female in charge, to be a willing participant in this relationship. As the female, and the one in charge, the most important thing you have to do is enjoy yourself. I know how that sounds. Of course you enjoy yourself, you're in charge!

Yes, you are in charge, but have you set up sufficiently random use of all the tease and denial techniques available to you? Because once you do that, you can keep things moving ahead by simply being unpredictable. Your chaste partner should never know exactly what is going to happen next. And frankly, neither should you.

Your objective is to continuously tease and torment your chaste man keeping him just enough off balance to keep things interesting. You must never allow your relationship to become “stale.” So you should always be on the lookout for something different. Maybe just a little different. But still, different. By doing this, you keep things interesting, not only for yourself, but for your charge as well.

One thing should always remain constant... His release date. It should be constantly changing and still be just within reach. Don't try and “go for a year” just to set your own long term record. You, as the one in charge, can always find reasons to move his release date back a few days at a time. Thus, keeping it just out of reach. Close enough that it seems attainable to him, yet far enough that you still have time to move it back again.

I know there are some of you who still have the need to feel a real piece of flesh between your legs, pumping into you, or you onto it, whatever the case may be. Well, I believe I have already given you one method to eat your cake and have it, too. Numbing cream! The best answer to any woman's need for real flesh between her legs.

So, keep things moving, keep them constantly changing, and always fun! Then you will have a successful D/s relationship! If you are NOT having fun, you are simply not doing it right. Above all else, having your own male in chastity should, not only be entertaining, it should be FUN!

nemo

For more in-depth information, consider one of theses books:

The KeyHolder's Guide

The Ultimate Guide to Tease & Denial