Wednesday, August 8, 2018

How to Get Teased Without a Mistress

Guys... One of the hardest questions to find an answer to on the Internet is, “How can I get my wife to tease and deny me?” Good luck! Well, I have at least one answer for you...

If you have approached your wife or girlfriend about using tease and denial to make your life more miserable (meaning fun) and she is just not interested, here is some advice on how to proceed and get yourself teased in the process.

First of all, you need to decide what kind of teasing you want. Do you want her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis? Would you rather she was a bit aloof and acted like she was totally uninterested in your sexual gratification? Or would you simply want her to deny you an orgasm once in awhile?

First of all, if you expect her to go out of her way to physically tease you on a daily basis, you may be out of luck. You will first have to show her how much fun it can be. But I warn you, it won't be easy. You will have to beg and plead and try to get her to read all those stories that turn you on so much. Or... You could simply keep reading them and STOP masturbating to them. Sort of a do-it-yourself tease and denial.
If you like the idea that she pretend your sexual arousal and subsequent ejaculations are irrelevant, then pay attention. All you have to do is give her everything she wants, sexually. Then, when it is your turn to get off, simply stop and tell her that you are satisfied with just making her happy and you don't really need to cum yourself. This can be very difficult if you lack the will power to stop yourself.

Finally, if you only want her to deny you on occasion, again, you will have to do it yourself.

Okay, none of those methods seem very fun. And you are right... They are not. But try this... Take every opportunity to show your wife how much you appreciate her. Bring her flowers (even just one) every now and then. Buy her a trinket, some jewelry that she likes. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something you think she would like. Surprise her with it. Now, to show her how much you REALLY appreciate her, give her a bath followed by a full body massage, ending in an orgasm (or multiple orgasms) and then convince yourself that you need nothing in return. Yes, you will be extremely aroused. Yes, you will WANT to cum. But, come on, you're a man. Resist letting her show you her appreciation. After all, you want her to deny you that orgasm. Pretend that she has and don't let her do it.

Be sure to take every opportunity to kiss her, passionately. Fondle her or grab her butt while you do it. Tell her how terribly sexually exciting you find her. Grab her bottom as she passes you in the kitchen, the hallway, or even the bedroom. All these little things should give you a sexual thrill as well. But, since you will get nothing in return, except maybe a hard-on, you have successfully teased yourself. That is what you want. Right? That is, to be aroused and get nothing for it?

Now, after a few weeks of this, she may be more willing to talk about a tease and denial relationship with you. Believe me, it works. The more you give her without expecting anything in return the better your chances are that she starts to see the benefits of such a relationship.

Finally, if you keep doing it, taking every opportunity to show her how sexually exciting you find her, the better your chances are. Make her the center of your world, not just sexually, but in everything you do. Put HER needs above your own. Show her the benefits of tease and denial. Once she has experienced the devotion that you are giving her, the faster she will come around to seeing the benefits! It's a win-win proposition!



  1. I hate to say this, but this works. Got the idea in reverse on a different blog whose author was frustrated beyond belief because she would not respond to his submissive wishes.
    Thought about it for a bit-----'his wishes'---submissive?
    Started doing everything 'she wants'
    It took awhile, but eventually she started to ask me if I wanted certain things. Yes, it works.

    1. Thanks for the confirmation! It's always nice to have backup... ;)