Wednesday, November 17, 2010

List of Punishments

Here is a list of punishments for those of you who need help in putting some variety into your play. Whether you are punishing him for transgressions or you simply want to enjoy giving him a little pain along with his pleasure, it really doesn't matter. I just wanted to give you a list of ideas to help you out.

•    Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, or buy a paddle)
•    Tie him in an uncomfortable position and scold him for his misdeeds.
•    Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them. Let him lay there and think about his mistakes.
•    Hog tie him. (wrists and ankles all tied together)
•    Hang him from the wall by his wrists. (you can get over-the-door hooks anywhere)
•    Tie him in a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders. This is good for spanking because everything is exposed and vulnerable.
◦    Use a small plastic swizzle stick (or a large dildo) to probe his ass.
◦    Wear rubber gloves and give him a slow, prolonged anal exam with one or even two fingers.
•    Take each ball in a separate hand and rest them on your open palms. Tell him that these use to be his but they belong to you now, to use, or play with as you please. Jiggle them in your palms, cup each hand around them and squeeze very slowly and somewhat gently, but until you see him grimace. Ask him who owns these things now.
•    Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap his cock and balls repeatedly (but not too tightly).
•    Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the ends off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. Use a needle to scrap along his shaft lightly, and poke his bottom a few times.
•    Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
•    Put a butt plug in his ass. Make him wear it all day or take him shopping with it in.
•    Get out the strap-on and make him suck it or fuck him with it.
•    Give him an enema.
•    Make him wear a cock cage. One that locks!
•    Don't give him permission to cum. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
•    Put Ben-gay or Icy-Hot on his penis and nipples.
•    Put Ben-gay or Icy-Hot on his hand then make him masturbate.
•    Drip candle wax on his cock and balls (from at least 15 inches up).
•    Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats,aerobics...) while naked.
•    Grab him by his ears and pull his head down between your legs and make him service you.
•    Make him purchase a blow up doll from the local sex shop. Have him bring it into the living room, blow it up and set it on the coffee table.
◦    Don't say anything about it for an hour or so, then have him strip and fondle him till he is hard.
◦    Make him mount the doll and screw it while you watch (or video tape him).
◦    You could paddle him, or tickle his ass cheeks with a long feather if you like.
◦    Make him talk to her, give her a name and say sexy things to her while he is humping her.
◦    Have him do it until he cums and tease him about what a little stud he is.
◦    Tell him you may let your girlfriend (whoever) watch this one time, or how the guys at work would love to see this.
This last bunch is more of a humiliation, but if he doesn't want the photos or videos published, it becomes a punishment.
I hope you get the idea here. Anything you want to do is okay as long as it won't cause him any permanent harm. Please write me (or comment) if you would like to share your experiences with my readers. Please be safe, but enjoy yourself!

Mistress Ivey


  1. Very thoughtful of you! Definitely worth printing.

  2. This is very instructive to the dominants. I would like to experience all of the most humiliating scenarios.

  3. I like your way dear Mistress ! :-)

  4. give his chastity keys to your lover

  5. great list. The key point thoughout is full ownership by Mistress.

  6. My Wife (and Mistress & Keyholder) has often had me play with a blow up doll for her entertainment. Other things she does are: remove my CD and then she tells me to pinch just my penis head until I get an erection and then she makes me screw the doll until I'm ready to orgasm and then pull out, in other words, edging with the doll; she'll usually make me pee in the doll a little bit and then order me to give the doll oral and suck my pee out; if I'm ever lucky enough to have an orgasm while playing with the doll, she will make me eat my cum out of the doll's 'pussy'. She also loves video recording it and replays it at other times to reinforce her power over me. Although it's rather unappealing to actually do those things with the doll, for some reason, it's very sexually exciting. I don't understand. - PAB1

  7. Don't forget after we subs cum we are in a different state of mind and a spanking at that point really sinks in!!

    The Icy Hot is the best punishment! fill the dolls ass with it and hump away and- have fun!!

  8. I used to hate the old "Hold a dime against the wall with your nose" bit. If I droppd the dime, my time started over. The third time it dropped, I got paddled instead. I also hated having to masturbate in front of her. She would just sit in the living room and tell me to cum for her. It wasn't easy, believe me!