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So if I stimulate this spot I can give my man an orgasm he will never forget? Yes, and no. There is a device designed for just that purpose. It's called the Aneros. They actually make several different models, but the basic function remains the same. I have not personally used one, but I am told they work very well. If used correctly, you can give you man an orgasm he will never forget or milk him dry without an orgasm.
I prefer to use the prostate and prostate-perineum for just that reason – Milking a man's cum without letting him feel the relief a regular orgasm would give him. That's right, I said “Milking a man's cum.” If you push your finger well lubricated (or the Aneros) into your man's anus, you can massage the dime-sized soft spot (prostate-perineum) until your man's cum oozes out of his cock. No, it doesn't squirt, shoot, or spew out, it just oozes. If you do this, you can keep his cock erect for hours without the use of any of those drugs designed to allow longer erections.
So what does all this have to do with me? By milking my slave's cum I can deny him an orgasm and still keep him erect and wanting more. In fact, he doesn't even have to be aroused in order for me to milk him. That's right. Milking does not require arousal. If you are into orgasm denial, milking your man when he isn't even aroused can be a big control mechanism. It's a great humiliation for those who enjoy that as well.
Once you have milked him dry you can humiliate him by making him drink his cum or measure it and make sure he has not been masturbating in secret. Make a frozen “cumsicle” for him to enjoy later, or whatever. I'll leave the ideas of what to do will all that cum, once you extract it from him, up to you. I would love to hear what you do with it.
For more information on milking I suggest reading Lady Lubyanka's blog on milking.