Male Chastity Pt-4

More of What Men Really Want

I am sorry for not including everything men want in my last post. but let's face it, men are greedy when it comes to sex! So there are a lot of things men want. Not to mention that each man is different and you should do your best to figure out what some of those things are. Also, his desires will, more than likely, change over time. What he finds humiliating today, may not be enough for him tomorrow.

I will probably receive a lot of grief for this one, but one of the things men really want from male chastity is humiliation. Come on now... The fact that he wanted to have his jewels locked up so that only one person would have control of when and how he ejaculates is pretty humiliating. So, don't even try to deny it guys.

If you talk with your chaste hubby, it should be easy to find a few things that he wouldn't mind doing, even though they are a bit humiliating. Would he rather be punished by having to hold a penny against the wall, or be paddled? By-the-way, either one of those is humiliating. Make him insert a butt-plug before you take him shopping. Chances are, he will feel humiliated even though no one else knows he is wearing it.

Of course, not all things will be that easy to discover. The best way to find out is to assign him a task or chore and watch his reaction. If he flatly refuses to do it, don't get angry or throw it in his face that this was all his idea. Instead, ask him why he doesn't want to do it. Let him explain himself and then you can move on to something else.

It is a good idea to work up a contract, but if you are in a trial period for say, a week or two, or even a month, it would be best to make a note of the things he refuses to do. That way, you can put those limitations into your first contract. You will have limitations also, but you won't need to put them into a contract. After all, YOU are the Keyholder and, therefore, YOU make the rules. But just because you can make the rules, you should refrain from making rules that might make your partner hate chastity. Let's be honest here, it's better to make a few concessions than to ruin the whole thing by being stubborn. There will be time for that later.

Learning what your guy wants is an on-going process. Not just because it changes a lot, but because there may be things you never thought of. Again, pay attention to the stories he reads. Have him tell you about them, or simply read them yourself. You can get a great many ideas from the stories he reads. You also want to talk about them while you are teasing him. Use the stories as insights into what he likes. Tease him by telling him that you want to do something he read in one of those stories. If he likes the idea, he will probably not admit it, but if hates the idea he will let you know!

Until next time,

nemo

For more in-depth information, consider one of theses books:

The KeyHolder's Guide

The Ultimate Guide to Tease & Denial