What Can You Expect to Get Out of it?
Of course, the obvious answer to that question is: it depends on what you are willing to put into it. You might think that that is a joke... But it isn't! As the Keyholder, you have the toughest job, until you get used to it. Once you have a number of things that you enjoy doing to your chaste man, a good set of weekly teases and, maybe a game or two that he likes to play, you can run on autopilot. Now that you have everything you need at your fingertips, and you are comfortable enough to use them, your job becomes a lot easier.
Now don't get me wrong. I am not saying that your job as Keyholder is an easy one. What I am saying is that you no longer have to spend half your day thinking of ways to tease your guy. You do, however, need to actually tease him. The more you tease him and the better you are at dangling the ejaculation carrot in front of him, the less work all this will be.
What you can expect to gain from all your hard work, aside from the fun you have actually teasing him, is a partner who now pays more attention to you and your needs. Your sexual needs as well as the needs that go with running a household. You can expect flowers from time to time. Maybe a dinner date, too. You should have plenty of help around the house getting all those nasty daily chores done for you, (well, most of them).
I would say you are getting plenty out your new relationship. Well, if you spent the time training your chastity boy as I recommended, you will. But there is so much more if you take the time to look for it.
Besides obeying you, your chaste male should now be giving you bubble baths (if you are into that sort of thing). How about full body massages? He should be giving you more spare time to spend any way you want. But the BIG bonus? That's the one where arguments are practically non-existent. I mean, you should be able to win any argument that comes along. In fact, you should be able to win with nothing more than a look. You know the one. That special look that says, “I will be happy to extend the time to your next release date... A year!” That one usually won most disagreements in our house.
So, as you can see, you have gained a great deal, since starting down this tease and denial path. I think you will agree, by now your chaste man should be well behaved and life is going much more smoothly than it was this time a year ago.
So, I was right. What you get out of it, depends upon what you are willing to put into it.
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