Apologies

I must apologize for not having posted the last two weeks. I thought I was covered but I wasn't. I have been ill (still am) but that's not an excuse.

This weeks topic,,, How to take care of your sick Dominant wife. The first thing you must remember is that, just because she is under the weather, doesn't mean you can slack off. After all, you wouldn't want her to slack off if you were ill, now would you?

At one time, you decided that serving her was what you wanted. There is no better time to do that than when she is ill. In fact, it's the best time to put everything you've got into your service to her. Believe me, it will NOT go unnoticed. Try to make her as comfortable as you can. Don't ask a lot questions (“can I get you anything” is not one of them). Don't expect her to tell you what to do all the time. Odds are, you know what to do. This is the time to do it without making her tell you.

Valentine's Day

I know, it's just a day created by the greeting card companies to sell cards, flowers and candy. But, hey, I'm a woman. So I have been doing some looking around for a few items to give my hubby. He had better be doing the same!

I don't send cards (I live with my Valentine). Why would I send him a card? But...That doesn't mean I can't buy him gifts. AND... It doesn't mean he won't have to buy me a few things, either. In fact, I have plans that include taking him shopping with me. After all, why should I settle for what he “thinks” I want when I can show him and stand right there while he buys it?

Gentlemen, and I know most of my readers are gentlemen, if you have been wanting to show your wife, girlfriend, or significant other, the benefits of taking control. So this is your big chance to do just that! Give her a day she will never forget. Pamper her from the moment she wakes up. How about breakfast in bed? You could follow that up with a full body massage including a nice long foot rub. She will love it. Spend the rest of your day showing her just how nice it would be to have a guy willing to do everything for her. Let her spend the day sitting in a chair, relaxing, watching TV, while you massage those lovely feet of hers… Again! If she is hungry, make her something to eat. If she is thirsty, fill her glass. Never mind the kids, this is Valentine’s Day. You have a reason to act like her slave. She deserves it!

Who knows? Maybe you can carry it over into the rest of the week. Before long, she won’t be able to live without knowing that you will be there to do all those little things she hates doing herself. Don’t blow it, guys. This is day comes but once a year. Make the most of it! And… Good luck!

Mistress Ivey

Attitude!

Okay, so you are still having trouble talking to your partner in bed (or wherever you are doing sexual things). The fact is, this is the one person with whom you should be able to talk. Heck, you talk about everything else. You even talked about doing this kind of sexual stuff with him. So what’s the problem?

The problem is, you are afraid of being judged, of failing to perform up to HIS expectations. Now isn’t it? Be honest with yourself. Ask yourself these questions: Do you want to make him happy? Do you want to enjoy having sex with your partner? Of course you do. But that’s exactly why you are having so much trouble. You put too much pressure on yourself. I am sure that you can get passed this, if you will just relax and forget about trying to please HIM. Instead, please yourself!