Differences Between Male & Female

No, I don’t mean anatomically, nor do I mean mentally. What I am referring to here is how the world treats males differently than females (just in case you hadn’t noticed).

A man runs naked across the basketball court of a Big 10 game during half-time. He is immediately arrested. Hauled off to the poky where he will no doubt be held on charges of indecent exposure, be stood in front of a judge who will, no doubt, slap him with a huge fine. His name, may or may not, ever be found on the front pages of any newspapers anywhere. His friends will pat him on the back and tell him what great thing he did while buying another beer at his favorite sports bar.

However, a woman runs across the field during a time-out in at the Super-Bowl. Even though she is caught on camera, just like the man above, she may not even be arrested. She might be held by the stadium security until her husband (or someone) comes to “bail” her out. There will likely be some kind of fine, but possibly not. But… Her name and photo (or the video) will be on every news cast for the next three days. Almost every American will know who she is. Her girlfriends will laugh about it and, maybe, buy her lunch. But most people will think she is just some crazy lady who wanted to show off her body.

So what’s my point? If you are the Dominant for a female sub, you can have her do a whole lot more in the way of public humiliation (and get away with it) than if your sub were male. Example: A female sub could masturbate under the table of just about any restaurant or fast-food joint in the world and (just as in When Harry Met Sally) the person at the next table might say, “I’ll have what she’s having,” just like in the movie. But a man, doing the same thing in the same place, would not fare so well. Again, he would likely be arrested and end up with a “Sex-offender” record that would follow him around for the rest of his life.

So if you want your guy to masturbate in a public (or semi-public) place. At least allow him some form of modesty. A table cloth, a restroom stall, or even a broom closet will do. You don’t want him to be arrested. Maybe have him tied naked to a tree out in the middle of nowhere while a passenger train goes by, (that works for females as well), instead of standing in a bank parking lot at noon on Friday. Just be careful what you make him do. “She” can get away with a lot more without incurring long-term repercussions.

One more example: If a woman flashes a man sitting on a park bench she is a lot less likely to be arrested than a man flashing a woman on the same bench. Just saying. As the Dominant, it is your job to protect your sub. So use your head.

Mistress Ivey