To Cuckold or Not to Cuckold

For many, that may be the question. But for me, there is no question. I know that my husband (and slave) sometimes has fantasies about these things. I also know that from his past experiences (read wives) he could not emotionally withstand it, no matter how strong his fantasies on the matter.

If you have delved as deeply as I have suggested you do into your partner's fantasies, then you should know which of these fantasies you might want to turn into reality for him, and which you should leave as fantasy. But we all have that “wicked” streak that wants to give him everything he fantasizes about. The real questions is, what damage might be done if we do?

Though nemo often fantasizes about being cuckolded, I know that he would have serious jealousy issues with it should I ever actually do it. So here is how I plan to over come these issues.

First of all, I know that if I were to actually cuckold him, it might just ruin our relationship. Therefore, I must find another way of making his fantasy, at least seem, to come true. I would schedule a night (or even a weekend) out in a hotel, somewhere. Las Vegas would be an excellent choice. One evening, I would bind him to the bed or even a chair while I go out. I would, of course tell him that I am going out to find a man to fuck me and that when I get get back, he can lick me clean.

This would, of course, cause him to have much anxiety. He might even get angry. But at some point during my one to two hour absence, he would fantasize about what I am doing. He would convince himself that I am only fulfilling another of his many fantasies, and that the man I choose would mean absolutely nothing to me. The fact is, I would choose no one. I would merely spend the time away gambling, shopping, or even just sight-seeing.

When I finally return to our room, I would continue the fantasy, acting as if I had just had great sex with a really sexy guy I found in the bar. I would undress, and make him give me two or three (or more) orgasms orally. I am sure it would not take long for him to realize that my vaginal cavity contained no semen. Only when I have been fully satisfied, would I explain what I had actually done.

It is very important that in doing this kind of thing, you would need to sit down and have a serious discussion about what happened. You have to be very clear that you (or I in this example) did NOT have sex with anyone other than him. Discuss his feelings about what you did, how he felt about it, what were his feelings while he was alone and waiting for your return?

I guess my point here is that there are ways in which you can simulate giving him many of the fantasies he loves without either of you having to do anything you really don't want to do. If you can use your imagination, you should be able to come up with other ways of making his fantasies come true (at least in part).

The emotional well being of my husband (slave, sub, partner, etc.) is extremely important. There is no better way to ruin a relationship than to inflict emotional damage, whether intended or not. So please, be careful what you do. Remember, in placing control of the sexual aspect (and possibly other aspects) of his life in your hands, he has entrusted you with a very valuable gift. Don't abuse it!

Mistress Ivey