Saturday, November 13, 2010

A List of Humiliations

Humiliation seems to be most women's biggest hangup when it comes to controlling their sub/slaves. So here is a short list of humiliating things you can use to tease and please your sub/slave. Many of these may not appeal to you and that's okay. Just do whatever you like and leave the rest. Send me any ideas of your own, tell me what works for you.

Once he'll "do anything to please you" here are some ideas that will keep your submissive attentive and in his proper place, and will hopefully be entertaining for you as well.

  • Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid, have him serve you dinner or bring you a drink while you read or watch TV. When you have no need for him he can stand in the corner with his nose pressed against the wall.
  • Make him do housework naked or dressed in women's clothes.
  • Make him hand wash your panties and lingerie.
  • Ride him around as your pony boy... Spurs? A riding crop?
  • Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash like a dog, he can even eat dinner from a dog dish on his knees at your side when you are at the table.
  • Attach a leash to his balls or a cock ring, and lead him around with that.
    • Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
    • Tie it to the foot of the bed when you go to sleep at night.
  • Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. Fuck him with it.
  • Make him wear your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
  • If he is horny and you are not, make him strip and kneel silently in front of you and order him to stay erect, but don't allow him to cum.
  • Make him masturbate for you, make him beg for permission to cum, don't let him, punish him if he does.
  • Make him earn his rewards; for example:
    • Allow him to kiss your ass after the dishes are done.
    • 1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of yours.
    • 5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes you cum 3 times.
    • Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to masturbate to orgasm.
  • If you think he's earned an orgasm, make him cum on your feet or on your heels or in a dish or on your ass and then make him lick you clean.
  • Don't let him masturbate or touch his cock for 4 or 5 days. Make him go and get a small saucer from the kitchen and kneel in front of you and masturbate, his cum to be shot in the small saucer. Let him lick up his own cum.
  • Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until you give him permission to cum. When you give the command he must cum within 10 seconds or he will be punished or not allowed to cum at all that day.
  • If he's really horny and bothering you, you may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 2 or 3 times in a day, or you can do this for him... There are a variety of things that can be used to create different sensations... Gloves, cremes, creme with coffee grounds on the hand, nylon sleeves, etc...
  • Make him lick you clean after sex.
  • When you go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when you arrive home.
  • Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him.
Humiliation is such a widespread fantasy, and there are so many different variations of what humiliates any particular person. It would be good to have him write some fantasies for you so that you have some idea of what you can use in real life.
Remember to have fun with it!

Mistress Ivey