I have
recently read a great deal about male chastity on other blogs. I
wanted to see what was being touted as “The” way to do it.
Mistress Ivey started this blog because she was tired of the way
sexual “Mistresses” were portrayed on the Internet. She believed
that there were many more women (perhaps couples) who would open up
their fantasies and desires, if they were exposed to another way of
doing things. It was she who brought the Female Lead Relationship out
in to the open and made it acceptable to the average woman.
Now, I am
looking at male chastity and finding very little honest and unbiased
accounts of what it truly is and can be. Just because a man has the
desire to serve a woman, and to allow her to take control of his
life, including his orgasms, does NOT mean that he wants permanent
chastity, or a wife who will treat him like dirt and never think
about his pleasure. On the contrary.
Male chastity can be the exciting new lifestyle many couples have been looking for. BUT... It can be done in a moderate fashion. It does not have to include many of the things I have read about on other blogs. Things like cuckoldry, permanent chastity, cruel whipping, or any of a number of other things.
So, it
occurred to me that I have a venue to set the record straight. I will
en-devour to teach you how REAL couples do it. How they live very
happy, healthy lives together using male chastity as a way of injecting
a little excitement into their, otherwise, stagnate sex lives.
So watch
this space in the future for some truly good, honest, advice about
Male chastity and how to use it to spark your own sex life up.
nemo
My wife (Merry) and I employ male chastity in moderation. Never more than two weeks at a time. Just something to build up the desire within both of us.
ReplyDeleteShould be interesting reading. We have looked at cages and discussed them. Robyn thinks some are nice and I asked if she wanted one for me. Her comment was not yet. So I'll just wait until she says she wants to look at them again.
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Here we go! Thank you for continuing with the blog. I'm looking forward to your thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThanks Nemo for discussing this topic. We enjoy using it build excitement and keep me from masturbating.
ReplyDeletePorn and masturbation can be a major problem in a marriage. A male chastity program can eliminate the temptation and set up a much better sexual husband / wife dynamic.
ReplyDeleteThank you all for your comments. I will do my best to keep this blog something you will want to read each week!
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My girlfriend and I have discussed chastity cages. We are thinking of very short-term chastity, for example when she goes out with a female friend for the evening, goes shopping etc.
ReplyDeleteIn that case, I would recommend you go with something inexpensive. Maybe a plastic or resin cage from Amazon. That way you are not spending a lot of your money on something you may not enjoy. If it works into something longer term, then you can look into some of the more expensive types.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your reply! The idea is not that I enjoy it, but that she can prevent me from masturbating when she is not around. It's still good advice though, we will take a look at cheaper cages.
ReplyDeleteMy QUEEN/wife and I only have weekends to "play" and I cant wear a cage during the week because of job related reasons. I thought that when I caged myself and give her the key for the first time it would be fun, even though she was not really into it. Since then I often cage myself on weekends or days off. Being caged has made me feel closer to my love then I thought it ever would. Some times she is not that into it, but as we have incorporated chastity in to our personal time she has begun to understand my kinky needs and wants to a greater extent. She has become the domei of my fantesys and embraced her wild side. The more we use chastity the more we grow as a couple and the more ive noticed see enjoys herself. My wife has become more confident in several other aspects of her life and more successful. I love the sexual side of chastity. Giving control over a literal piece of me to the love of my life to do with as only she pleases. Keeping my constantly horny and often "played with" without the cage more then she ever had before. Though I never accounted for the greater reward of chastity. The fact that we love greater and fulfill the each others needs and desires more then I could have dreamed of and ultimitly found a stronger deeper connection that most people never experience. Our story continues to been a successful one of many years and many more to come and this part all started with a little "click." I can only wish for the same happiness for anyone reading this post. Have fun and be safe.
ReplyDeleteI am very happy to see this post because it really a nice post. Thanks
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