First Public Display

Public display is not something every woman wants to do to her chastity boy. However, I thought it worth writing about because many couples do it at some time in their relationship.

The first time I was to be “Displayed” to another woman was announced a full month before it was to happen. I am quite sure that was done to help Mistress build up my anticipation before the event. I was told that on a certain date (a month away) I would be performing in front of one of Mistress' best friends, we will call her “Miss Barb”. I was aware that Miss Barb knew of our relationship, but I had never been required to do ANYTHING of a sexual nature in front of another person.

First Prostate Milking

Wow! Do I ever remember that!? I think your first prostate milking is something you will always remember. But first, I want talk about the benefits of prostate milking.

Abstinence is NOT the cause of any type of cancer, as far as the medical community can prove. That is to say, no one has ever proven that there is a link between abstinence, and prostate cancer. Having said that, there are studies who reportedly have made that connection. However, their research has always been rather flawed or non-repeatable. That simply means that, even though some studies claim to have made that connection, none of them have been able to reproduce their results (which invalidates the first tudy), or they are simply slanting the results to make it seem that there is a connection between abstinence and prostate cancer.

First Outdoor Experience

I don't know how you feel about being exposed to someone other than your Mistress, but I find very erotic. Just the thought that someone might see me doing something in public (or semi-public) is quite thrilling to many men and women alike. It's like that feeling you had a kid the first time and some of your friends decided to see what other boys and girls look like naked. It can be embarrassing, but it can also be quite stimulating just thinking that someone might be watching.

The first time I was exposed was several years ago while driving to Birmingham, Alabama. Mistress told me to pull over and drive up this dirt road she saw. I turned that car around and drove back to the little road Mistress had seen. I had no idea what Mistress had in mind for me at that time. I just wondered where she taking me.

First Reward

I remember quite clearly the first time Mistress Ivey rewarded me for something. I had been working very hard all day chopping wood for our fireplace. I chopped a half-cord. It had taken me the entire afternoon git that much, but I didn't want to quit until we had enough to fill the two quarter-cord racks we had bought the week before. I also new that I would eventually be required to fill the racks but I wanted to get it done before she asked. Mistress Ivey had gone a shopping trip with a few of her friends. I just took advantage of her absence to get the job done.

As a result of my efforts my body was very sore the next day. Being as that day was Sunday and we nothing else to do, Mistress said she wanted to reward me with a nice body massage. Of course that sounded pretty good to me. We owned a cheap massage table we had picked up at a yard sale. So, Mistress decided to use it.

I laid down on my stomach to start out. Of course, there were lots of sore muscles on my backside, and Mistress wanted to tend to those first. She did a great job of rubbing coconut scented massage oil into my skin. She took her time, too! She spent nearly half and hour on my back and legs. Then I was told to roll over...

This is where things really changed. Mistress bound my ankles and my wrists to he table. It surprised me because I wasn't expecting to be bound. That's when Mistress carefully removed my chastity cage. Yes, she took it clear off! It felt good for my cock to be out in the open air.

To make a long story short, Mistress massaged my legs, arms and chest before she ever touched my penis. Believe me, my mind and my body were confused. The massage relaxed me but my cock remained hard during the entire time. But,of course, she made a point of NOT touching my cock or balls..

I had been on the table for about an hour before Mistress told me that she was going to give me a reward. It had been about three months since my last ejaculation, and I was ready for whatever she had in mind. She spent a full hour toying with my body. Getting me ready to squirt, then stopping before I did. It was truly fantastic!

By the time she allowed me to ejaculate, I was literally begging her to let me do it. It was probably the best, most powerful ejaculations I had ever had. So take it from me, lengthy teasing can really pay off when it comes time to ejaculate.

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First Punishment

Sorry for the late post. There has been a lot going on here, lately.

I remember distinctly my first punishment from Mistress Ivey. I admit, I earned it. In fact, I did it deliberately, as I suppose many of you have, just to see what she would do. So what did I do? Let's just say I didn't do what I was supposed to do.

FIrst T&D

Believe it or not, neither of us (Ivey or myself) had ever done anything even resembling tease and denial. Every session we had up to this point had ended in at least one of us having an orgasm. And, no, it was not always me.

We had just finished signing our new FLR contract (agreement) when Ivey told me to go to the bedroom, strip naked and wait for her on the bed. Being a man, and always horny, I had no problem doing as she had ordered.

It didn't ever matter to me how tired I was, when the offer was made, I would be sure and muster whatever energy was necessary to hand the situation. (I am talking about sex, of course.) I did as I was told. After all, I did want to make things easy for her and I wanted to show her what a good little sex-slave I could be.

Setting Up an FLR

I remember the day, well it was actually an evening after the kids went to bed, that Ivey came to me said she wanted to talk about changing our relationship. I was confused. What was there to change? We had a contract. I was in charge. I saw no need to change anything. But... I was not going to shut her down without hearing what she had to say.

Ivey began by showing me some of the websites that other Mistresses were running at the time. She complained that was NOT the way it should be. I agreed, but I still didn't understand what that had to do with our relationship. She carefully explained that she wanted to reverse the roles in our relationship. That kind of shocked me even though I had already taught her how to be a good Dominant in a BDSM relationship.