Wednesday, August 2, 2017

More on Fantasies

So, Ladies... If you have been paying attention, and if you take a look at the two polls in the right-hand column, you should realize that your partner most likely fantasizes about many different things. Some, he hopes you will make come true, but others he just wants you to talk about doing.

My point here is (and I will leave the polls up for another week), if you take a close look at what these two polls indicate, you should be able to guess where your partner is in these polls. If you can't, then you can always have him take the polls again, just for you. Don't worry, he will answer the questions, if you will but ask them.

Most men, I have found, want their limits to be pushed, at least a little. You can use his fantasies to push those limits if you like. All you have to do, when you are sexually teasing him, is to mention that you have been wanting to do something special. Something on his fantasy list. You don't have to actually do it. Just talk as if you might. Tell him how much fun you think it would be to do it. Tell him exactly how you would do it.

Would you make make him dress up as a woman and take you to a coffee shop? Perhaps you might mention that one of your girlfriends knows about his submissive side and wants to see it for herself. So you thought you would invite her over so she can see just how obedient he is.

And for those things on his “Reality” list, well, if any of them appeal to you, why not make a few of them come true for him. It isn't a great deal of work for you. All you have to do is tell him you want him to do whatever it is. He should, albeit reluctantly, obey you. After all, that is what he wants to do. He longs to be told exactly what to do. It is all a part of the teasing that you do for him.

So, Ladies, in the future, remember to push his limits and tease him with fantasy, and a splash of reality every once in a while. It will liven up both your lives and possibly make this “being in charge” more fun for you.

Mistress Ivey

16 comments:

  1. Fascinating poll results!!! Did not realize (but really did!) that so many guys want to act these things out, especially when 2nd woman is involved. Funny that more guys want to be pegged by a woman than fantasize about it??! If you are one of those guys, explain yourself!

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  2. Don't want to fantasize, want to be pegged...

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  3. Do not fantasize, love when she's deep there.

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  4. Very interesting to see the poll results. Also kind of reassuring to find out my own fantasies are popular among submissives.

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  5. I found the results of the poll interesting as well - and somehwat reflective of my own proclivities. I'm new to this site, so maybe the following idea for a poll has already been conducted - I would be interested in seeing the results of a poll about male chastity, such as duration, activities while in chastity that might intensify the chastity experience, types of teasing that have the most effect in reminding the man that he is chaste, who the SO shares this 'secret' with, etc. PAB1

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  6. My wife fuck me with her clit. She comes.

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  7. Mistress Ivey, where are you going with this. some of the things OK but I think you are pushing things to far, or is this real. Yes I would do some of the`s things for you and in front of your friends but that is my submission to you but not for everyone else to see

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  8. I still have my Holy trainer somewhere

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  9. what do you do when a girl gives you a kiss then shakes her ass like I have never seen one move that fast before.

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  10. what do you do when a girl gives you a kiss and then shakes her ass like you have never seen before.

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  11. She was young and it was very fast, hypnotizing

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  12. Am I a Sub or what

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  13. you must be sick again or you would put your boot down. I miss your boot.

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  14. Ok the girl was my nephew`s girl friend, she was cuckholding hem and seeing guy`s my age. her parents left her and moved. She was on her on. She is know a nurse in the OR room here in Atlanta.

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  15. My wife often teased me about making sure other ladies knew I was a panty boy, knowing I enjoyed the fantasy of being found out. We were at a mall out of town, in California, when we entered a Frederick's lingerie store. With a gleam in her eye, she picked up three or four panties, handed them to me and said to go try them on. As the dressing rooms were locked, he had to ask the sales girl to let him in, which she did. She said, loud enough for the gal to hear, "don't forget that you need to keep the panties you're wearing on, dear." The gal sort of grinned and said something like, "we get more guys in here trying on and buying panties than you'd think." When I came out, my wife asked which ones I liked. "All of them," I blushed. "Well, pick out your favorite," she said, laying all four pair out on the counter. "What do you think?" she asked the clerk. The two women chatted as if I wasn't there, picked out the two they thought I'd "look cutest in" and I was told to pay for them. It was exciting, it was embarassing, it was thrilling...and I'm so glad my wife did it!

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