More on Pegging

This is memo. I am writing this to give you more of a male perspective to pegging. Guys, if you think you would enjoy being pegged by your partner (or someone else), and they don't know it, you need get on the ball and talk with them. I know that many of you are terrified to bring up the subject for fear that you will be scorned, laughed at, or told you are just too perverted. But if don't ever bring it up, you will always long for something you may NEVER get. That's not fun.

The trick is to find a way to bring it up with least amount of risk. So, I suggest sitting down to talk about what you both like and don't like. Tastes change, so doing this periodically is always a good idea. If you enjoy any kind of anal play from wearing a butt-plug to prostate milking, then pegging is not that much different. So bring up the subject during one of your discussions and hopefully, you will get your wish.

Now then, having gotten that out of the way, let's move on to something more instructional. First of all, if you don't have much experience with anal toys, don't rush into this thinking that it will all be fun without pain. That just isn't going to happen. Even if you are used to having plugs and vibrators shoved up your butt, odds are, a dildo of any size, will feel different.

As Mistress Ivey said, you can't have too much lubrication! But there is a secret that you may not be aware of... If you push as if you are trying to potty while the dildo is first entering your back side, it will open your sphincter a little and make it easier to get the dildo in. I would also suggest using a condom on the dildo, not just for safety reasons but for cleanup. It make it SO much easier!

Another thing you might want to do in preparation for pegging, that is giving yourself (or have her give you, and enema. There are enema kits (bags or premixed bottles) available almost anywhere. Most drug stores carry them. Of course, you can even purchase them online if you prefer a little more anonymity. The whole point of cleaning yourself out first,is to make things more palatable for your partner. Nothing ruins a moment more than brown stuff all over the dildo. Of course, if you use enough lubrication, that won't be a big problem. That “stuff” doesn't stick very well to a well lubricated surface.

If you have question, please leave a comment. Mistress Ivey or I will be happy to answer them for you.

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