Masturbation -v- Sex (pt.3)

Games:

Now that we understand how masturbation and partnered sexual activity differ, and we know that fantasies can play a major role in any type of sexual activity, let's take a look at how to use those fantasies to our advantage.

To put it simply, tell your guy that he can go into the bathroom and masturbate for his release this month. That will cause a smaller drop in his desire and, therefore, a shorter recovery time, than if you simply stroke his cock to ejaculation for him. Whether you nurture a fantasy or not, at this time, will have some, albeit slight, effect on his recovery time as well. But what do fantasies have to do with playing games?

If you like to play sexual games with your partner, whether or not he is locked in chastity, the more you incorporate fantasy into your games, the more effective they will be in getting, and keeping, him aroused. For example, if you text your partner during the day, try adding a little bit of fantasy to your text. This is a simple thing to do. You could, for example, ask him if he would be turned on being tied to a chair while you slowly rake your fingernails over his entire body, and just leave it at that. His mind will work overtime for the rest of the day. If your were to actually do that to him, at one time or another, before asking him the question in a text message, the memory of that event will enhance his imagination in re-creating the fantasy.

If you are one of those women who enjoy the humiliation he feels when you make him stand before you and masturbate, then knowing some of his fantasies can really help. Nurture the fantasy by relating parts or it, or asking him to tell you about the fantasy while he tending to the job at hand. He may finish much sooner than he would if you just sit there in silence and watch.

If you use games to determine when he gets an orgasm, or what kind of an orgasm he may have, fantasy can be a great tool here as well. You can begin by telling how you intend to allow him to orgasm. Maybe you promise to spend some time teasing his entire body first, or make him do it in the car. Whatever fantasy you use can help build his anticipation of the event.

Use your imagination to come up with ways to use fantasies to increase your partner's desire and anticipation of your next encounter, whatever that may be. You may be surprised how effective fantasies can be...

Mistress Ivey