My online
experiment didn't work out well, to say the least. So I am back on my
blog. I will be writing on various subjects, those that other people
write me about. So if you have a question, or an interest in some
specific area of your relationship, please comment or write a note
at cbt.mstrss(at)gmail(dot) com and I will try to address it here.
To start
with, I would like to cover one thing that women often seem to
forget, male ejaculation is bad. Well, not totally, but if your
hubby, partner, significant other, chastity boi, or what have you,
seems a little grumpy, there are several possible reasons. 1) Maybe
he needs some sexual attention. Make sure he gets plenty. 2) Maybe
work isn't going well and he needs some sexual attention to get his
mind off of it. Give it to him. 3) Or, just maybe, you allowed him to
have a full orgasm.
As I said
in my books, a full male ejaculation can cause many men to suffer a
sort of “after effect” in which they display a shortness of
temper, or an in general grumpy disposition for several days. To
avoid this kind of thing happening to you, be sure you monitor and
control his orgasms. Whether you place him in chastity or not, just
make sure he isn't masturbating in the shower when you are not
looking.
Next week
we will cover the big question about prostate cancer.
Mistress
Ivey
Good to see you. Of course, You are right! But i'll plead for just a little understanding that, maybe, ejaculation could help our relationships? :)
ReplyDelete~sara (cd)
Don't worry... We will get to that.
DeleteIvey
Male ejaculation is poor. Two things can do ejaculation less bad. Those are Long term orgasm denial and ruined orgasm. When a period of orgasm denial is short ejaculation has a very bad effect.
ReplyDeleteMen are worse than women tolerate a strong change in the hormones level. Such sudden changes in hormone levels in men caused bad emotional states. One week of denial period is very bad. Four weeks of denial are a minimum of minimum. Six weeks or more is even better.
In the beginning man is hard getting used to long term orgasm denial. He is very frustrated because he can not ejaculate.
Over time, through several long cycles of orgasm denial loss of passion for his adored wife, becomes more frustrating than lack of orgasm.
Ruined orgasm relieves loss of male desire. Husband faster returns on the line, the less hormones are changing. Long term orgasm denial with ruined orgasm give the best result.
Maria, I am living testament to the truth of your words. IN fact, knowing this and being consciously aware of this fact, on the rare occasions when Mistress has allowed (even demanded) a full orgasm, I will beg her for denial or for a ruined orgasm. I have come to crave the dull ache of blue, full balls.
DeleteI agree to some extent with your both. But there are other things to be considered. Abstinence alone is not the answer.
DeleteIvey
"...male ejaculation is bad." Truer words were never spoken!
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear your online experiment didn't work out, but I'm very glad your are back!
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