How to
select a chastity device.
There are
many different chastity devices on the market. Everything from cheap
Chinese knock-offs of the most popular brands to complete customized
chastity belts costing several hundred dollars. I will only cover the
those that I feel are the most reasonable for those just starting
out.
Before we
begin, let me state that a chastity device is a very personal choice.
What one couples likes may not be the best choice for the couple next
door. There are a great number of things that need to be taken into
consideration, such as penis size (when flaccid), the amount and type
of exercise your guy gets, travel, and overall comfort. It may take
some experimentation to find exactly the right device for you and
your guy.
CB-x000
Series
Lets begin
with the most popular, the CB-x000 series which includes the CB-6000,
the CB-6000s, the CB-3000, the Curve, and (if you can still find one)
the CB-2000, all of which are made by A.L. Enterprises, Inc. (
cb-x.com ).
All of
these chastity devices are made of acrylic and are welded together at
the center. They come with a variety of base-ring sizes so you don't
have to worry about ordering a particular size. However, the CB-6000s
was released to accommodate those with a slightly smaller penis than
average. They do NOT make one for the extra large penis, however.
They also offer a set of “spikes” called “Points of Intrigue”
which dig into the top-base of the penis should it attempt get hard.
There are three different lengths of spikes included with each set.
Personally, I think they are over-priced at $45us per set. But they
DO work well!
I don't
recommend the Chinese knock-offs because they are usually NOT made of
acrylic.
Pros:
Well made.
Reasonably
priced
No
measuring required.
Spikes are
available.
Cons:
They can
break.
Spikes are
an expensive addition.
Cause a
visible pant-bulge.
Customized
Steel
To avoid
breaking, most people will choose to go with a metal device. There
are several different styles to choose from. Mature
Metal ( maturemetal.com )
will custom build any of their chastity devices to fit the way you
want your chastity device to fit. They offer several designs. You can
get spikes with some models, but not all, for an additional charge.
Of course, being customized, these chastity devices will cost you a
little more. But if fit is important to you, this might be the way to
go.
There are
other customizing companies out there, but Mature Metal seems to have
the best customer relations and best way to insure proper fitting
BEFORE you buy. So if you are looking for a custom fit, Mature Metal
is the way to go.
Pros:
Customized
to fit properly the first time.
Steel
construction won't break.
Spikes
available.
Cons:
Can cause a
pant-bulge.
Fairly
expensive.
Long wait
because of customizing.
Standard
Steel
There are
many companies that make standardized devices out of steel. However,
many do not use surgical stainless steel and those models will often
corrode and/or cause irritation. Be VERY careful in selecting one of
these.
However, if
purchase from a reputable company, you can often save a great deal of
money because they usually only come in one or two sizes. The nice
part is that you can get quite a large variety of styles. Some have
urethra catheters (usually removable) just in case you are feeling
extra sadistic. Some brands offer some kind of spikes that can be
included or not, depending on your mood. Some of these spikes are
quite sharp and may even bring a little blood on occasion. So, I
would recommend filing them down just enough to remove the sharp tip.
They will still be effective.
Pros:
Inexpensive.
Many
different choices.
Optional
catheter.
Cons:
Spikes can
be too sharp, requiring filing.
Limited
sizes available.
Difficult
to judge quality of steel.
Usually
cause a large pant-bulge.
Airport
security.
Silicone
Devices
There are a
couple of companies making male chastity devices out of pure
silicone. These stretch to fit snugly and are usually make from one
piece. So there are not little parts to lose, no sizes to worry
about. The most famous of these devices is the “Birdlocked”
( birdlocked.com ) which can be
bought with spikes in the head of the device. Most devices put the
spikes along the penile shaft. But the spikes are NOT removable and
you would have to purchase more than one device if you didn't want
the spikes always there.
While
silicone is a nice stretchy material, it does not breath well. It
fits very snugly and may not prevent an erection as much as a harder
material would. However, because of its elasticity, one size will fit
everyone. The Birdlocked comes in three size, getting the right one
can be a matter of trial and error. In spite of what the
manufacturers might have intended, these devices often do cause a bit
of pant-bulge, but not as much as their steel or acrylic
counterparts. All in all, the silicone devices are not as popular as
many other devices. Why, I don't know. They seems to do well.
Pros:
One size
always fits.
Smaller
pant-bulge.
Cons:
No
removable spikes.
Not as
comfortable as other devices.
Does not
breath well.
HolyTrainer
In all my
research into male chastity devices, I have never run into a device
as perfect as this one. It is made by Novamédia of Switzerland.
The HolyTrainer
(holytrainer.com) is
unique among male chastity devices in that it is made from a
bio-sourced resin (plants) that is extremely strong. It has the
unique property of becoming ply-able when heated. The HolyTrainer is
formed without seams which means it won't break where most plastic
and acrylic devices break. At normal room temperature is is very
strong, but when heated normal body temperature (such as when you
wear it) it becomes somewhat soft and will become quite comfortable.
The
material used and the unique design of this device make it ideal for
travel. It does NOT require the usual pad lock and the only (tiny)
metal piece used for locking the device in place does NOT set off
airport metal detectors. If your guy travels a lot, this will be a
really big plus! The base ring is also made of the same bio-sourced
resin and will form-fit itself your guy's body the first time he
wears it.
The
HolyTrainer comes in two sizes (like the CB-6000) for those smaller
than normal guys. However, not only does the device NOT produce a
pant-bulge, it is extremely comfortable to wear even while riding a
bicycle. I am told (by a reliable source) that is the most
comfortable device on the market. (Believe me, we have tried them
all!) While it does not have any provision for adding spikes, it can
be worn 24/7 removing it only for a thorough cleaning once a week
(recommended for ANY device!)
Pros:
Reasonably
priced.
Comfortable.
No
pant-bulge.
Less apt to
break.
No problem
when traveling.
48 hour
delivery (believe it or not)!
Cons:
No spikes.
All in all,
the best device I have ever tested! I would strongly recommend the
HolyTrainer as your number one choice for a male chastity device. If
you heat it in hot water, it can be molded to fit any penis. Put it
on your guy, have him take a hot shower, and the device will mold
itself to come extremely comfortable.
Mistress
Ivey
We have tried devices twice with the same results. First a few years ago was with a CB2000, then just recently with a metal device.
ReplyDeleteBoth times it had to be removed, possibly permanently because the base ring started rubbing and sores with the plastic, CB, model and almost debilitating pain from deep bruising with the metal one. In order for the ring to be small enough not to simply slip off it constrains the ball sack.
How to explain? When the sack is very relaxed and loose there is ample room for the ring to fit. But, during the course of the day and night there are times, not aroused, when the sack it seems to pull up closer to the body. There is then not enough room between the sack and body or the ring to rest comfortably.
We decided to start some what slowly, 5 days on, then 3 off, 5 on, then 2 off, then are 2 full days on the pain became so intense simply walking became almost impossible. When this last happened I was away from home active on a ball field with kids. It was 2/3 hrs before I arrived home where the key was so we could remove it.
Once off there was noticeable bruising all around my genitals, swelling and soreness which took over 3 weeks to subside.
Not being sure, it seems that there is not enough room between the body and the sack.
Have you heard of this? suggestion? advice?
Chastity, control, ownership, etc....nothing is worth being unable to simply walk or function.
Mistress Ivey, this is perfect. Exactly what I was missing from part 1. It's safe to say that I'm new to all of this, but I find all of it very exciting and since the past year has had me in the dominate role of the relationship, why not take it to the next level. Besides, it's about time my boyfriend learns what it feels like.
ReplyDeleteI was the one that posted about recommendations in part 1. Unrelated to this posting, will you be posting any articles on other products?
I've seen your posting on humiliation (which was great). I am specifically looking for a few things: 1) a good strapon (I've got the joque harness on order, hopefully it turns out well). 2) I need a good beginners dildo for it, something safe. 3) A safe realistic dildo. 4) Lastly, a small butt plug that I can make him wear for hours while we're out on a date.
If anyone has any input I will gladly listen.
Discipline and control. A male can't be properly trained without plenty of both...Be bossy, demand obedience. Punish infractions. Be the Queen of Your castle.
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