I know I have talked about this before, but I feel it bares repeating. Not only that, but there are always new ways of doing things. I am always looking for new and different ways of teasing my husband (and his cock) sexually. Maybe because I find it to be so much fun. Or maybe because I don't want to get bored with doing the same old thing all the time. So here is something I have found that I think works really well.
There are a large number of chastity enthusiasts who enjoy a little humiliation along with their chastity. Just having your subbie/hubbie stand in front of you and masturbate can be a very humbling experience for most men. This is one time I don't recommend a blindfold. He should be able to see you watching him do his own thing.
Masturbation is a very personal, and often private, thing, especially to a man. He might admit that he does it. He might even admit what type of porn he uses to do it. But to have someone actually watch him do it, especially if she is giving him orders, can be quite humiliating and very erotic at the same time.
There is one item that I think really adds to any tease and denial session as well as to any masturbation sessions you might have you man perform for you, and that is the Tenga Egg. For those of you are unfamiliar with this particular product, I have included a video below.
By using one of these eggs on your man's cock, you can give him quite a ride. You can twist it, pull it down and guide it back up until he is ready to shoot his load, then stop. Allow him ample time to rest before continuing. The best part of all, should he ejaculate without your permission, you can continue playing with the egg and it will drive him mad! A little bit of Post Orgasm Torment, if you will. Of course, it is also a great idea to use one if you are trying for a second, or even third, orgasm of the day. He will achieve it much more quickly if you use a Tenga Egg for those second and/or third orgasms.
If you are making him masturbate for you as a humiliation or punishment, a Tenga Egg can be so much more humiliating than just his own hand. He will, of course, have to stop on command. You don't want him pushing himself over the edge, now do you?
Anyway, give humiliating him through masturbation some thought if you haven't already. Then consider finding new and different ways of making him do it for you. If he has to do it too often, or always in the same way, he will become too used to it and it will no longer be humiliating. We don't want that, now do we?