Male Chastity Pt-3

What does he REALLY want?

Okay, we have established there are things your chastity boy wants, and why he can't tell you what they are, there are some things common to every guy wearing a chastity cage. First of all, he wants more sex! It may be because he feels you are not doing enough for him. Or he may think that he will get teased constantly. Either way, he wants more!

What your chastity boy wants is more sex, more teasing, more denial, and longer periods of being locked up. I know that sounds stupid, but we are men, and... Well, sometimes we just don't make sense.

When your guy asked, begged maybe, you to lock his cock in chastity, he wanted several things. 1) more frequent sexual contact, 2) less frequent orgasms, 3) to have one thing in his life out of his control. While it's true that many men (usually wealthier than me) would use a professional Domme. Even though she would not ever have sex with him, she took control of a small portion of his life. For a few minutes, he was allowed to let go, to NOT be charge of things. That may be all he is looking for.

Male Chastity Pt-2

Why men can't tell you what they really want...

Have you ever wanted something, like a bouquet of flowers, a present, or even a surprise night out? How do you go about telling someone that you want them to surprise you and, yet, it still be a surprise? Think about it for a moment. If you tell your hubby that you want him to surprise you with a bouquet of flowers and the very next night, low and behold, he brings home a beautiful bouquet. Be honest. Was it really the surprise you hoped it would be? Or was it more a let-down because you just told him what you wanted. The surprise was gone, wasn't it? And the fun right along with it.

Realistic Male Chastity

I have recently read a great deal about male chastity on other blogs. I wanted to see what was being touted as “The” way to do it. Mistress Ivey started this blog because she was tired of the way sexual “Mistresses” were portrayed on the Internet. She believed that there were many more women (perhaps couples) who would open up their fantasies and desires, if they were exposed to another way of doing things. It was she who brought the Female Lead Relationship out in to the open and made it acceptable to the average woman.

Now, I am looking at male chastity and finding very little honest and unbiased accounts of what it truly is and can be. Just because a man has the desire to serve a woman, and to allow her to take control of his life, including his orgasms, does NOT mean that he wants permanent chastity, or a wife who will treat him like dirt and never think about his pleasure. On the contrary.

Coming Soon!

Coming Soon!

I am planning a series covering the fallacies you find on the Internet concerning Male Chastity that will set the record straight. The truth about what makes a couple successful, and what makes relationships fail. Don't miss it!

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