Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Using Role Play

There is one area of chastity play that I have touched on very little in my blog. That's because most people who get involved in chastity play don't often use it, and that's a shame. It's called Role Play.

It is up to you, the Mistress (or whatever you call yourself), to control all the teasing that goes on with you and your chaste partner. I mean, you can bind him, remove his chastity device, and tease him in any way you like. But doing the same thing each time can, eventually, become boring. Just as with any other kind of sex, variety is the spice of life. But figuring out new and different ways of teasing a man's cock can be a daunting task at best. If you do the same thing (or even several things) too often, then some of the fun and excitement will become routine. And that's no good!

Role play adds a whole new aspect to the world of tease and denial. For example; You could pretend to be a mall cop and you have apprehended a shoplifter (your partner). You can bind him, you can make him undress, you can even remove his chastity device if you like (but it's not necessary). Then you can do anything you like, such as masturbate in front of him, have him do it for you, or even allow him to please you orally if you like. How the story unfolds can be different every time you play. The point is, you have just added a bit of variety to your teasing that will be much appreciated by the both of you.

Another popular scenario is the cop and the robber. Suppose you have to interrogate a suspect in an robbery. Perhaps you want to know the location of the loot he stole. You can do anything you like to your prisoner to get the information out of him. In the end, you give him an orgasm (ruined or otherwise) for giving up the information. Or, you could keep him on the edge as long as you like if you are not happy with the information he is giving you.

Here is how I play this particular game, just to give you an idea. Before we begin, I have my husband choose one card from a deck. Then, as I interrogate him through teasing, CBT and even the paddle at times, he must keep secret the card that he pulled. It is my job to get him to tell me what card he pulled from the deck. When he does, the game is over and I won. If he holds out until I give up, he wins. Sometimes, just for winning the game, I will allow him to ejaculate. Other times I won't. If I win, it doesn't matter because I have already put him through the ringer, so to speak. But you can make up your own rewards or don't use them at all. Just have fun playing the game.

Another popular role play scenario is Doctor/patient (or nurse/patient) as the case may be. Of course you would play the role of the Doctor or nurse while your chaste partner becomes your patient. Here, again, there are any number of things you can do ranging from a physical exam (very in-depth) to prostate milking, or anything in between.

Without going into a long list of scenes you can use for your role playing, I'll leave it to your own imagination, or you can research it on the net. It's up to you. But by adding role play to your repertoire of teasing methods, you have a million new ways to tease and add excitement to your sexual experience.

Mistress Ivey

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