Saturday, August 13, 2011

What is CFNM

For those who are not aware, CFNM stands for Clothed Female Nude (or naked) Male. This begs the question of just how popular CFNM is. Well, there are numerous web sites dedicated to CFNM if that tells you anything. It must be fairly popular or there would not be that many web sites dedicated to it.

Having established that it is even remotely popular begs the question, “Are you playing with your partner while dressed?” It might surprise you to learn that many men (subs, slaves, chastity boys, etc.) actually love that sort of thing. On top of that, there are a number of them who never even thought about it. They haven't thought about it because their Mistress always plays with them wearing some sort of lingerie, fetish-wear or nothing at all.

The truth is, playing with a naked man while you are clothed can be a big turn-on for him, and possibly you, too. My slave loves to be played with either blindfolded or while I am fully dressed. It's a small thing that can cause a slight bit of humiliation. Think about it this way, being naked in a room full of naked people is not nearly as humiliating as being the only naked person in the room. I think we all know that. So it stands to reason that if he is naked and your are not, it will be slightly humiliating to him.

You should try it sometime. Maybe invite a few of your kinky friends over to enjoy his humiliation. He'll probably love you for it.

Mistress Ivey


  1. Absolutely right, Mistress. Not sure why, but it's a big turn-on for sure.

    1. Thanks for your comment. I am glad you enjoyed the article.

  2. And you are the best example of CF, Mistress Ivey ! Clothed and yet incredibly hot !!