I have done a great deal of writing
about ruined orgasms (my favorite kind). But I think I have to
redefine them just a bit. I have come the the conclusion that some
orgasms, while not allowed to expend their ejaculate in a 'normal'
manner, are not quite the same as real ruined orgasm.
What I am talking about needs a bit of
explanation. When I talk about a ruined orgasm, I am speaking about
one that is allowed to happen all on it's own. It will not squirt,
spurt or shoot as a normal orgasm. It will, in fact, only dribble
out. The only way I have found to achieve this type of orgasm is to
simply allow it to happen without touching the cock at all. That is,
when that all important, crucial moment arrives (often called the
point of no return) and no further stimulation of any kind is given,
the ejaculate will simply dribble out.
However, if you stop the orgasm by
squeezing the tip, shaft or base of the cock, you have not,
technically, ruined the orgasm. Though it may not be what your guy
wanted, it still allows his system to pump all it can as hard as it
can, it just doesn't come out. It will be blocked from squirting,
spurting, or otherwise shooting out as in a normal orgasm. That's why
I call these “stifled orgasms.”
The only difference between a stifled
orgasm and a full orgasm (one that is allowed to squirt, spurt and
shoot out) is the fact the the stifled orgasm isn't allowed to come
out until all the hard pushing is done. The fact that a full orgasm
results in a decrease in sexual desire is also present in the stifled
orgasm. Therefore, for all intents and purposes, a stifled orgasm is
a full orgasm that was not allowed to exit the body with any force.
A ruined orgasm, on the other hand, is
not a full orgasm because no matter how much the subject tries to
push his ejaculate out with force, he is simply unable to do so. This
then, leaves him totally unsatisfied and wanting more. Wanting more
is the goal of the ruined orgasm, isn't it?
So from now on I will refer to only
three types of orgasm; full, stifled, and ruined. I apologize for any
past confusion this may cause, but in the future, things should be
much more clear.
Mistress Ivey
P.S. Just received a comment from a long-time reader. He tells me that the loss of desire from a Stifled orgasm does not last nearly as long as that of a full orgasm. This is good news and I thought I should get the word out. He says, in his case at least, it only lasts for about an hour. So I stand corrected. Thanks, Tom.
P.S. Just received a comment from a long-time reader. He tells me that the loss of desire from a Stifled orgasm does not last nearly as long as that of a full orgasm. This is good news and I thought I should get the word out. He says, in his case at least, it only lasts for about an hour. So I stand corrected. Thanks, Tom.
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