What
does he REALLY want?
Okay, we
have established there are things your chastity boy wants, and why he
can't tell you what they are, there are some things common to every
guy wearing a chastity cage. First of all, he wants more sex! It may
be because he feels you are not doing enough for him. Or he may think
that he will get teased constantly. Either way, he wants more!
What your
chastity boy wants is more sex, more teasing, more denial, and longer
periods of being locked up. I know that sounds stupid, but we are
men, and... Well, sometimes we just don't make sense.
When your
guy asked, begged maybe, you to lock his cock in chastity, he wanted
several things. 1) more frequent sexual contact, 2) less frequent
orgasms, 3) to have one thing in his life out of his control. While
it's true that many men (usually wealthier than me) would use a
professional Domme. Even though she would not ever have sex with him,
she took control of a small portion of his life. For a few minutes,
he was allowed to let go, to NOT be charge of things. That may be all
he is looking for.
Now I have
read on several blogs that you (the Mistress) should lock him up and
then, because you can, you take total control of him and his cock.
Fine. Do that. It won't make your marriage any better. First of all,
if you are like most women, you actually enjoy having intercourse
with a live man. That is to say, sometimes a plastic vibrating dildo
is just not going to do it for you. So you let your hubby out of his
cage and have some fun. There is nothing wrong with that, though
there are websites that will tell you differently.
Your
chastity boy may want to go for longer and longer periods of denial,
but that doesn't mean you have to. Here is a tip that will satisfy
you both. Go out and purchase a bottle of “Aspercream.” Pay no
attention to the fact that is for tired, aching muscles. If you
massage his cock with some of this, rub it in really good, wipe any
excess off with a dry towel, You can now have intercourse for as long
as you would like. Aspercream happens to be 4% Lidocaine! Yes, you
read that right... 4%! It will numb his member for about thirty to
forty-five minutes. Long enough for you get all the satisfaction you
want, without giving him any.
But how is
he going to keep it hard if he can't feel it? Trust me, watching you
and listening to you as you bounce up and down (or whatever you do)
will be enough stimulation to keep him hard. What? He never got hard
watching a porn video? Well, he won't be just watching this one. Take
my word for it, he will stay hard as long as you talk to him. But
that's my next post...
nemo
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Thanks for the idea!
ReplyDeleteThere is also other material? (I live abroad)