More Daily Teasing

I have written about daily teasing before, but I think it is a subject that needs a great deal of emphasis. I cannot stress enough how important it is to keep your man thinking about sex and (especially) YOU! After all, the whole point of teasing is to keep your guy horny and attentive. Attentive to both your sexual needs and desires and to the everyday chores you want him to perform around the house. Maybe I am going into too much detail, here, but I think it's really needed. While some things may seem obvious to some, others will be glad I was detailed.

The best way to accomplish this is to make and KEEP him as sexually aroused as possible as much of the time as possible. So let's talk about things you can do to keep him that way. The following are some examples of things you can do to insure that he will be thinking about you and about that next ejaculation if and when you decide to give it to him. Some things might not apply if your guy is in chastity.

New Toy!

I found a new product on the market that is great for tormenting a man's cock while you are teasing him. Well, it's called an “Expandable Ponytailer” by scünci. I am sure you can find them anywhere women's hair products are sold. I bought mine at the local “Dollar General” store. They come in two sizes (large and small). I got one large one and two small ones for a total of $5. The large one measures about 1-3/4 inch across at the base and was sold as a single unit. The smaller one measures about one inch across the base and was sold as a pair (for smaller ponytails I assume).

When you open them up (by spreading them out) the first thing you notice is those wonderful teeth inside! They are built as a lattice work that expands and contracts as you pull and push on them. I suppose they would be nice to hold a ponytail in place, but, as I said, I had another purpose in mind for them.

The Male G-Spot

Aneros going in...

Is there really a Male G-Spot? The answer is "Absolutely." Quite simply, the Male G-Spot is the man's prostate gland, and more specifically, the prostate-perineum. The prostate is the male prostate gland, and the perineum is a dime-sized soft spot between the anus and scrotum. The important nerves that control the sexual organs, including those controlling erection, orgasm, and ejaculation, converge at the prostate and the perineum area. This means that this area is essentially a man's "command center" for sexual pleasure. The result of stimulating the Male G-Spot can be sexual pleasure on an entirely different level for men.

So if I stimulate this spot I can give my man an orgasm he will never forget? Yes, and no. There is a device designed for just that purpose. It's called the Aneros. They actually make several different models, but the basic function remains the same. I have not personally used one, but I am told they work very well. If used correctly, you can give you man an orgasm he will never forget or milk him dry without an orgasm.

I prefer to use the prostate and prostate-perineum for just that reason – Milking a man's cum without letting him feel the relief a regular orgasm would give him. That's right, I said “Milking a man's cum.” If you push your finger well lubricated (or the Aneros) into your man's anus, you can massage the dime-sized soft spot (prostate-perineum) until your man's cum oozes out of his cock. No, it doesn't squirt, shoot, or spew out, it just oozes. If you do this, you can keep his cock erect for hours without the use of any of those drugs designed to allow longer erections.

So what does all this have to do with me? By milking my slave's cum I can deny him an orgasm and still keep him erect and wanting more. In fact, he doesn't even have to be aroused in order for me to milk him. That's right. Milking does not require arousal. If you are into orgasm denial, milking your man when he isn't even aroused can be a big control mechanism. It's a great humiliation for those who enjoy that as well.

Once you have milked him dry you can humiliate him by making him drink his cum or measure it and make sure he has not been masturbating in secret. Make a frozen “cumsicle” for him to enjoy later, or whatever. I'll leave the ideas of what to do will all that cum, once you extract it from him, up to you. I would love to hear what you do with it.

For more information on milking I suggest reading Lady Lubyanka's blog on milking.

Mistress Ivey

Tease Talk

I have been getting quite a few requests for more information on talking. So in this post I am going to show you what a short session could be like. Yes, it is quite repetitive, but that's okay. You don't have to recite any long orations about any one thing. No, what you need to do, once you get your man properly bound, is tease his mind as much as you tease his cock. Before you start, you should bind your guy in some way so that he cannot reach his cock or struggle (twisting, turning, etc.) enough that he can escape your touch. After all, we don't want him stopping our fun, now do we? You can bind him to a bed, a chair, a wall, or even just hag-tie him as long as you are comfortable and can get to his genitals.

In this scene I will use some humiliation. I will talk about some of the fantasies that my fictitious victim has. You will need to substitute your guys fantasies (whatever they are) for the ones used here. Note: All questions to the victim (sub, guy, man, slave or what have you) are rhetorical (as yours should be). That is, you really don't care what his answers are, or even if he answers at all. The point is to make him think about what you are doing and what you might do. The words in brackets “[ ]” indicate my actions.

Chastity Roulette

As games go, there are an unlimited number of choices. However, I think Roulette is, by far, the best of them all. It has nine different odds depending on the bet placed, and '0' and '00' add something special for the Mistress. There are so many ways to play, only a few of which I will show you here.

Requirements:

• Roulette Wheel
• Betting table (usually cloth)
• Odds chart (see photo)

Bets and Odds: (see Odds chart)

The odds vary according to the bet placed. You can download the photos on this page for a full sized version. (Just click the photo and download it however your browser requires. Same with the table photo.)

How to Play:

The sub (or chaste one, if you will) is allowed to place one bet only. What he (or she as the case may be) wins is determined by the payout odds. The better the odds of winning, the less he/she will get.

Example:

• 35:1 – Full orgasm (any way)
• 17:1 – Ruined orgasm (Mistress' choice how)
• 11:1 – 1 Hour of teasing (can include edging)
• 8:1 – 45 minutes of teasing (no edging)
• 6:1 – 30 minutes of teasing (no edging)
• 5:1 – Edged 3 times (however long it takes)
• 2:1 – Masturbate for 10 minutes (no orgasm)
• 1:1 – 1 minute of masturbation

If he/she loses their bet, nothing happens that day. Or perhaps they are punished in some way.

Of course, you can use whatever incentives you like. You don't have to use the examples given here. You may want to use a disincentive such as a humiliation or a punishment to make the better odds not such a good thing. Masturbation can often be a disincentive as well.

So what happens if the ball lands on '0' or '00' and he/she did not bet on them? That's up to you. As Mistress, you can make it anything you want, perhaps a punishment or a very humiliating act of some sort. Here are a couple of simple variations that require only the wheel itself. No betting table or odds chart is needed.

Easy Teases

Of course, with all cock teasing, whether the objective is to tease and deny, ruin an orgasm, or even allow a full orgasm, it's good to talk... Constantly! After all, 90% of teasing is psychological. In this writing I intend to cover some simple methods of cock teasing with the specific intent of denying your partner an orgasm. In other words, these methods are intended to end without ejaculation. In fact, Some of them will not even get him close enough to call it edging. Once you have your guy bound to a chair, the bed, or to a wall, you are ready to begin...

The Brush Tease:

Almost any soft brush will work. If you don't own one, you can pick up a soft paint brush (from 1 to 2 inches wide) at any paint or hardware store. Get the softest and narrowest one you can find. If you have the money, a large sable brush (available at your local art store) is an excellent choice, though they are often expensive.

What you want to do is gently stroke the underside of his cock with the brush. Use the lightest stroke you can, especially at the beginning of your session. You can use heavier strokes as the session progresses. Pay special attention to the very sensitive area just below the tip. Press hard enough to make his cock “jump” if you can. That means he can not only feel it, but you are really getting to him.

You can keep this type of cock teasing up for as long as you like and the odds are he will never reach a point where he will be able to cum. But it will drive him crazy. Don't be shy. You can tease his nipples and other erogenous zones if they are sensitive enough.

List of Punishments

Here is a list of punishments for those of you who need help in putting some variety into your play. Whether you are punishing him for transgressions or you simply want to enjoy giving him a little pain along with his pleasure, it really doesn't matter. I just wanted to give you a list of ideas to help you out.

•    Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hairbrush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, or buy a paddle)
•    Tie him in an uncomfortable position and scold him for his misdeeds.
•    Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them. Let him lay there and think about his mistakes.
•    Hog tie him. (wrists and ankles all tied together)
•    Hang him from the wall by his wrists. (you can get over-the-door hooks anywhere)
•    Tie him in a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders. This is good for spanking because everything is exposed and vulnerable.
◦    Use a small plastic swizzle stick (or a large dildo) to probe his ass.
◦    Wear rubber gloves and give him a slow, prolonged anal exam with one or even two fingers.
•    Take each ball in a separate hand and rest them on your open palms. Tell him that these use to be his but they belong to you now, to use, or play with as you please. Jiggle them in your palms, cup each hand around them and squeeze very slowly and somewhat gently, but until you see him grimace. Ask him who owns these things now.
•    Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap his cock and balls repeatedly (but not too tightly).
•    Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the ends off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs. Use a needle to scrap along his shaft lightly, and poke his bottom a few times.
•    Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
•    Put a butt plug in his ass. Make him wear it all day or take him shopping with it in.
•    Get out the strap-on and make him suck it or fuck him with it.
•    Give him an enema.
•    Make him wear a cock cage. One that locks!
•    Don't give him permission to cum. Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
•    Put Ben-gay or Icy-Hot on his penis and nipples.
•    Put Ben-gay or Icy-Hot on his hand then make him masturbate.
•    Drip candle wax on his cock and balls (from at least 15 inches up).
•    Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats,aerobics...) while naked.
•    Grab him by his ears and pull his head down between your legs and make him service you.
•    Make him purchase a blow up doll from the local sex shop. Have him bring it into the living room, blow it up and set it on the coffee table.
◦    Don't say anything about it for an hour or so, then have him strip and fondle him till he is hard.
◦    Make him mount the doll and screw it while you watch (or video tape him).
◦    You could paddle him, or tickle his ass cheeks with a long feather if you like.
◦    Make him talk to her, give her a name and say sexy things to her while he is humping her.
◦    Have him do it until he cums and tease him about what a little stud he is.
◦    Tell him you may let your girlfriend (whoever) watch this one time, or how the guys at work would love to see this.
This last bunch is more of a humiliation, but if he doesn't want the photos or videos published, it becomes a punishment.
I hope you get the idea here. Anything you want to do is okay as long as it won't cause him any permanent harm. Please write me (or comment) if you would like to share your experiences with my readers. Please be safe, but enjoy yourself!

Mistress Ivey