Help Me!

Have you found a unique, or fun, or effective means of teasing or otherwise controlling your partner? Have you found a special tease or means of denial that you find very effective? If your partner is not in chastity, how do you control his behavior? Do you, or he, do something special?

Here is a short list of the types of things I intend to cover in my next book. If you have a funny story, a method of teasing, or an effective way of controlling your partner, please email it to me. The special email address you need to use is: Remember, your name and any personal information will be changed to protect your identity, so you do not need to worry about it being published... IT WON”T BE! Both men and women are urged to submit letters.

Here is a short list of the types of things I am looking for.
  • Do you have a special tease that works well?
  • Do you reset his release-date so it takes him longer to reach it?
  • Have you found a special technique for ruining or stifling his orgasms?
  • How do you use chastity?

Other subjects:
  • Using a Phone
  • Video Tormenting
  • How You Introduced Chastity
  • Orgasm Control Methods or Game
  • Milking (prostate or other)
  • Punishments and/or Disciplines
  • Release Date Control
  • Cuckolding
  • Humiliation
  • Long Teases
  • Cross-Dressing
  • Role Playing
Things to tell me:
  • Who or what are you? 
  • What's your job or his job? 
  • Do you have kids? How do you deal with that?
  • Something about your relationship before & after taking control
  • What does he do for you?
  • Has it improved your relationship?
  • What you enjoy most about T&D.
  • What works for you and, maybe, what doesn't.
This is only a sample list. You can write about whatever area you would like, even if it is not listed here. I want to know all your secrets so that I can share them with all my readers and help them to become better wives and Mistresses so that we can all do the most effective and enjoyable means of controlling our partners.

Click Here for a sample email.

Thanks for your participation,
Mistress Ivey