tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5605483279630140700.post7492141387993143098..comments2023-10-26T12:38:10.192-04:00Comments on Becoming a Mistress: FLR w/o BDSM?Georgia Ivey Greenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02697120541492027493noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5605483279630140700.post-38506470191210597202015-04-11T15:15:20.633-04:002015-04-11T15:15:20.633-04:00I would say this post describes Ellie and my marri...I would say this post describes Ellie and my marriage pretty accurately. Ellie feels, at least at this point, that a chastity device does not allow me to show my devotion by forgoing my orgasms voluntarily. She prefers that I remain chaste by choice not by force. In addition there is little kink in our marriage. But I definitely agree, and Ellie has discovered that without the two elements you mentioned, chastity and tease / denial, this dynamic would not work for us. I would be unable to refrain from masturbation and would have little motivation to work for Ellie. I don't fully understand it, I just know it works, and frankly I feel better about myself as a person and a husband when the dynamic is in place and I am working hard for my woman.Serving Elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14691301215653092582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5605483279630140700.post-10302811996517704632015-04-07T09:26:06.120-04:002015-04-07T09:26:06.120-04:00Mistress Ivey, I am indeed one of those few and fa...Mistress Ivey, I am indeed one of those few and far between men out here that are kept in strict chastity but without the use of a device. When we first started our FLM, we used a cage and frankly, if it wasn't for that cage, I don't think it would be possible for me to be able to adhere to my strict rule of no touching. Last year I has a total of 4 full orgasms and so far this year I have had one. I have had some ruined orgasms along the way but not a lot.<br /><br />I am constantly aroused for my Mistresssub hub in phxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17489169642204094414noreply@blogger.com